stubborn friends

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I have searched through and through on this discussion and have not found a discussion that would suit what I wish to express here. I have a few friends that are very stubborn and to whom I feel drifted away from. I live in a different county from my friends, but not so far away that it would prove to be difficult to either call or come visit. However, I feel that they do not take any time to communicate with me. This doesn't bother me to an extreme extent as I am happy with my fiance and hanging out with his friends. However, one of my friends has recently called me up and asked me if i'd like to hang out with them. I feel a bit between on whether I should or not. This one friend is a very honest and truthful person and has told me a few things that confuses or bothers her about my sudden change. I respect her and have listened to her. She has outlined how she is confused on why I no longer eat hispanic dishes, how I never want to drink anymore (although I never did that much anyway) and how I seem to not do these things because of my fiance. She has expressed that I used to eat alot more dishes but no longer eat them because of my fiance and his food habits. I feel a bit ashamed or rather mad because of her abrupt comments, but like I said above I do respect it. She realizes that everyone changes, but at the same time I Feel that she is stubborn to the fact. She has changed herself, maybe not as much as I have, but she has. Also, although I am not certain of this fact, I feel that my friends would not venture to my county and come hang out with me in my new neighborhood, solely because they believe it to be a small county. I understand that gas prices are high, but I do not live a far distance from them, and my fiance's blazer (as I do not wish to drive) is bad on gas... we do not have a job yet, but my friends do... and they also have vehicles that are better on gas. My fiance's friend lives ten minutes farther from us then my friends do (and in a different direction) yet he comes to see us, even though he has to drive farther then my friends to get to work.