did ur boyfriend hit u?

Indonesia
April 24, 2008 3:53am CST
i have boyfriend and he is Sumateran. when he getting agry of me, he did hit my stomach a time and pinch my hand. but until now, i keep my boyfriend with me cuz i love him so much. but until now...i'm trying to change his bad attitude. i wanna know that ur boyfriend ever hit or hurt ur body?
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@kezabelle (2974)
24 Apr 08
Well good luck trying to change him maybe he could see someone for some help over his anger I doubt he can do it alone. My man would never hit me, why? because he knows the second he hits me he is out that door theres many things I would forgive but physically hurting me is not one of them, yeh he gets angry but even if I annoyed him he wouldnt hit me he has more respect for me than that
• Indonesia
24 Apr 08
wow. what a great man. i hope my b/f will be like ur man soon...
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
30 Apr 08
There should never be a time for a man to hit a woman. My boyfriend would never hit me. My ex did once and I walked out on him.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
24 Apr 08
Oh My! good luck to you if you can actually change the person. he is only your BF and he already is hitting / hurting you physically. I always think if you allow your partner to hit you, he will always do that and nothing can change him... even if you try hard and extend your patience to him... no he will not change and will continue to hurt you. as for your question, no. not one of my past bf has ever tried to hit me. they have not even tried... no matter how much i try to test their patience our arguments never lead to physically hurting each other. And yes, i made it clear with them that if they hit me... it means everything's over. no second chances.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 08
I don't know how you measure the hit, is it soft hit for a joke, or a real hard hit? If it's a real one, I wonder if one day he'll grab your neck and hit your face.
@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Be careful, if he has done it once he will do it again, no man should hit a woman, they should wall away, punch a pillow if that angry but not hit you. I had it happen to me in a relationship years ago, he never got a second chance, I left him, mader him get anger management and to this day he has never hit another woman but I wouldn't go back. Ellie :D
• Bahamas
24 Apr 08
Hi aozora. I would not put up with being hit for no reason, and my spouse knows this.In the fourteen years that we've been together he has never hit me, not once.You may love him but he has no right to put his hands on you in that way.Loving someone that hits you will not make them stop, it's just not enough my dear.He needs help that i'm afraid you alone can not give,unless you are a therapist.You have to be of the mindset that you deserve better from the man you love.Remember that your body should be loved not abused.
• India
24 Apr 08
Ppl like these say they change, but neveer chage, thats total disrespect, i know my husband is not gonna change though he pleads of it....