Are we still friends???

Philippines
April 26, 2008 3:14am CST
When you're together with your friends do you sometimes feel that they are all against you? Or they are picking on you? Or they are laying plans against you against your back? Or did you ever seen a friend you haven't met for along time and you realize that you're friend has changed a lot and there's a lot of things you don't know about them... Or did you ever had the experience that you used to do something together and now s/he is having a lot of excuses everytime you ask him/her to do that something Do you ever wonder if after all of those years are you still friends???
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grace24
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
7 May 08
sometimes i feel that something changes between me and some of my friends...people grows up so they are changing...they have changed a lot..
My2Cents
@My2Cents (291)
• Canada
28 Apr 08
I cant say I have experienced this since highschool..lol. But I do know the feeling
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Apr 08
I have wondered a few times if I'm still friends with some people while others I know I'm no longer friends with. SOmetimes it's upsetting other times its not because people change and drift apart.
angelface23
@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
28 Apr 08
After I had my daughter I lost touch with most of my friends, mainly the ones I drank with. I have mostly ridden my life of the fake friends though. There are still a few that I wonder if we are still friends. Like my one friend is a great person but everytime we talk I have to call her and when we make plans she never calls me the day of and if I call her she doesn't answer. i have taken her number out of my phone. It's not that I don't consider her a friend anymore but if she's not going to take the time to call me or keep our plans then I don't need to waste my time with her.
ckimkimkim
@ckimkimkim (214)
• Philippines
28 Apr 08
i'm a negative person, so i'm not thinking that my friends have a bad plans against me because i know they will never do such things. well in my group of friends, we all love each other and we treat each other as a sisters. ahhmmm, on your 2nd to the last question, i can say it was me who has a lot of excuses whenever they asked me to do something, i just don't want to do it. but still, even though i have that bad attitude, i still love them and we're still friends...