April 27, 2008 12:48pm CST
my baby daddy really got issues he don't want to take care of my child so i put on child support and he is now begging me to take him off it so that he can get his license back but i won't so now he don't come see my son at all good.... i don't care thats his lost my child can't miss out on nothing he never had you feel me and if got issues like me them feel free to voice them there is no need to keep them inside release the angry people it helps
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• United States
27 Apr 08
It seems to be the case that those who do not want the responsiblity for their own actions need to be held accountable, such as child support, is a good thing you continued to do. His not seeing his son is not due to his paying child support but to his own immaturity and laziness, and lack of caring. I raised my niece and the biological father was a piece of work he would end up getting himself fired so that he could go to court and have himself taken off of child support, as far as I am concerned it should have still been in place if he went to court over it, then it should have been him going to court to show why he couldn't pay at that time, but that the courts should have him pay, or at least that it was something he would have have to pay as soon as he did get a job again. As a result of my sister losing so much of her income, from going to court every other month because he would lose a job, and so it was nearly every other month she was going, she was losing more money than she was getting, and to make matters worse the courts were only making him pay 25 a week, I realize that the 80's things were a bit cheaper, but for anyone who raised a child during the late 80's early 90's and managed to house, clothe, feed, and provide medical as well as all other needs for a child, please tell me how that is possible if both parents are paying how do you do that on 50 a week, because everyone knows that to keep a child in a home, with heat, gas, elec, clothing, food, medical etc, is only going to cost 200 a month right? On what planet? It is his loss that he doesn't know his child, but with such a selfish example of how to live it is likely that your child is better off not learning such behavior.