Is it possible ?

India
April 28, 2008 6:01am CST
I was in relation with a girl for 2 years . I met her in 2006 in June month and she got impressed by me and proposed me that time . Although she was in relationship with a guy that time , but she told me , its not serious . I accepted her proposal and we made a strong relationship . she asked me to marry for many times in those days ...but situation was not good for me to do that ... she started doing her master last year but I didn't due to some family problem ... but I always give her time ... Before one month she told me " I don't want to continue because I love myself too much and not getting time and interest for you " But she was lying that time ...which I came to know after that ....actually she was starting liking some one else and she left talking with me ... But problem is that " I still love her and always trying to get her " One week earlier we talked over phone and she asked me to forgive her ...but I said I couldn't ... Then she asked " what you want from me ?" I told " come to me any marry with me and don't talk with him anymore " she promised me that she won't talk to that guy any more and she is not .... But she is not connected with me like before . she is saying me its all your need , which I am doing but I am trying to get interested in you again....but it will take time ... About me , you guys can think....I want to get her in any way ...I don't know what is right and what is wrong. Because I believe " there is nothing good and bad in this world by any fix definition." So is it possible to get her again ? Can time will help me to recover this gap , which has come in our relation ? I am very confuse these days .... what you people think about it ?
2 responses
@subha12 (18449)
• India
28 Apr 08
i think there was something missing in this relationship. may be from the start. at first it was she that proposed when she had one Bf. you fell in love, but she now loves another one.I have seen somewhat similar case. actually the person is fickle minded in chosing partner. so take decision after thinking much.
• India
28 Apr 08
See, I love her thats I know , and I want to get her , this also I know ... I don't care about many things too much ... So can you please tell me ...is it possible ?
@subha12 (18449)
• India
28 Apr 08
i think i can't read the future for you. if you try to convince her, do that. but love can't be obtained by forcing someone.
@sweety10 (188)
28 Apr 08
hey!! i read ur story ...ya its happened ...when d person r bit confused 2 choose their partner...n differences may arise between both of u 4 lack of communication...so its better communicate 2 dat girl... one thing can also happen dat may be shez wants 2 feel u jealous...so dat u can feel sumthing good abt her...or she wants 2 realize u dat hw much u love her... I cant tell ur future but now u get chance so tell her hw much u love her n u want 2 spend wholelife wid her....n if she really loves u definitely she will understand u....