Dating

United States
April 28, 2008 10:44am CST
so i was just wondering if there was anyone else out there that feels like their significant other relies way too much on them. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and dont get me wrong i love him to death, but the thing is he's 31 and im 24 and he depends on me too much. does anyone else have this problem???
2 responses
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
28 Apr 08
well, I just do not like it that he depends on you too much. he should understand that both of you should hold half the responsibilities.
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• China
29 Apr 08
loving is the most important thing! also love should depend on each of you!
• United States
30 Apr 08
I agree a relationship is 50/50 in every way
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Apr 08
Britta, i don't really have that problem as I see us as depending on each other equally. But I have had a relationship like that before and it ended up destroying us because he depended on me for everything including finances and I was in college.
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• United States
30 Apr 08
yeah i hope that doent happen but u never know