should your signific person in ur life be able to tell you who you can talk to?

United States
April 28, 2008 6:10pm CST
So theres this guy and This girl likes him but his girlfriend is tellin her that because she likes her boyfriend he can't talk to her do you think he shouldnt talk to her just because his girlfriend tells him not to even if he likes the girl.. PS THIS IS TEENAGE LOVE
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• United States
28 Apr 08
It's been a LONG time, but if memory serves and if things are the same today as they were all those decades ago, the quickest way to lose your boyfriend is to emasculate him. The girl might be a risk and then again she might not. Don't increase her appeal by decreasing yours. You are only going to make it worse by treating your boyfriend like a wiener.
@agfarm (930)
• United States
29 Apr 08
Dear Lambchoper....I couldn't agree with you more! Especially when the girlfriend lets her Boyfriend do what ever He wants , because she's a Free spirit and prefers not to be possessive! But for him to turn around and Behave in a manner which hurts the same person if she happens to glance at a very cute boy! ARRRGGGGHHHH! How annoying! My cousin just went through the very same thing , and yes....she is a weiner too!
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• United States
29 Apr 08
heheheh lots of wieners out there. An awful lot of people spend an awful lot of time trying to control or "fix" other people. The time would be better spent trying to improve themselves.
• United States
29 Apr 08
I agree with you I feel that time would be better spent worring about more important things in the relationship let alone worring about whos talkin to who.
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@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
28 Apr 08
i dont know i think that if he wants to he should be able to but to be honest, if my girlfriend would ask me not to talk to a girl and she had a good reason and if it meant that much to her i wouldn't talk to her just to keep the argument down and to keep her happy...i mean if i had been friends for years that might be a whole new story but if i had just met her and my girlfriend didn't want me to talk to her i probably wouldnt
• United States
29 Apr 08
I agree with you there its not like that its like Ive known him for like 5 or 6 years and his girlfriend feels like Im too close so she doesnt want me talkin to him any longer. Thanks for the imput.
@lilaclady (28236)
• Australia
28 Apr 08
I don't think there is anything wrong with talking but i guess sometimes people can make their partners or special friends feel insecure, I think if someone makes the partners feel secure then they have nothing to worry about, but then there is a lot of temptations these days and people are so selfish and seem to want it all...it is easy to understand why people worry...
• United States
29 Apr 08
I agree as long as you havent lost the persons trust then you should be able to talk to who ever you want as long as your being honest with the person and everything.