Have you ever been divorced?...

Hello aseretdd, My eldest sister was divorced few years back as the husband found another young woman and not willing to leave his new found love. My sister decided to get a divorce and that left her with two young sons to feed. She depended too much on her husband that when thing didn't work out at the end, she became truly hurt and lost hope. She happened to know about the affair when the youngest boy was just 5 years old. When they divorced, my youngest nephew was at the age of 10 years old and whenever you asked him what happened to his parents, he remembers everything clearly. He told the mother that he knew it as the father always brought him to see another woman and asked him to call her auntie (he thought whoever that he supposed to call auntie is just like myself whom he calls auntie too...) and he kept the secret because he didn't want the parents to fight. The three of them lived miserably after the divorce of the parents and it took my sister years to forget her sad past and the hurt being left behind because of another woman. I saw myself how the three of them struggled with their lives - my sister without the husband, and my nephews without their father. I stayed with them and helped them whenever I could and it really made me angry with my ex brother in law for doing this to them.

I had a divorce 2 years ago. Due to my ex husband leaving me and going back to his ex wife. So I divorced him

I am not married yet. so there is no question of being divorced. it is there in our country. now the rate is alo incraesing a big amount here. I think there are many stress associated. still people go for it when other things are unbearable.

Although it seems that the divorce rate has increased in my country, but I don't think it's very common anyway. The friends who I am familiar with haven't divorced and they are happy with their marriages. When I decided to get married, I also hope that it will last forever. Although sometimes we will have disagreements and arguments, but it won't lead to a divorce. Getting divorced may not solve the problem, and you may not be happier to find another right one. And it's so harmful for your child as both of you separate from each other. So for all of these reasons, the best solution is to try to be much more understanding and considerate. The communication is so important to solve problems. I love China

I was divorced when my kids were small. It was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. It was hard on my kids, but as the years went by they understood from first hand experience with their father, why I got the divorce. Now, I am about to be divorced again. This time there is no guilt on my part, my kids will cheer when it's done, and I will be much happier. I will however, never get married again. I believe in marriage. I'm not a fan of divorce, but I understand that sometimes, it is necessary and healthy when the welfare of children are involved.

not married still and so not divorced... i don hv any gal friends and so no problem in my life

I have been divorced because well he left me I had no choice. It was hard on everyone including the kids. Lucky for me I had family and friends to help me thru it all. I also met my new husband during the year and a half long divorce and well he was my angel without him I would have been in trouble so bad.