WHAT IS PERFECT A FAMILY?

@ssh123 (31073)
India
August 18, 2006 10:50pm CST
According to you, what constitutes a pefect family?
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@khan_jee (1053)
• Pakistan
26 Nov 06
respect ur elders & love ur juniors
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
Very valid points indeed. Thank you very much for your response.
• India
26 Nov 06
the members of the family should have good under standings betwwen them, and redy to do any thing for the family members and they should love each other then a perfect family is created
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
It is very aptly said. Thank you very much for your response.
@bzinger (412)
• United States
19 Aug 06
Every family is perfect in its own way!
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
You are right. Thanks you very much for your response.
@allie4712 (130)
• United States
19 Aug 06
There is no such thing as a perfect family but there is no such thing as a not perfect family. Every family has it's own way and wheather some people may thing it's perfect or some people may thing it's wrong either way, to that one family they are the way they want to be.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
Very thoughtprovoking response and thank you very much for the same.
@lisamantz (141)
• United States
19 Aug 06
There really is no such thing as a "perfect family", unless of course, it's perfect to you. Every family has it's disfunctionalities. Whether it be the eccentric mother inlaw or the drunken uncle. What really matters is how you deal with your family. Do you accept them the way they are, do you communicate with them about what bothers you, do you deal with your spouse in a healthy manner? Do you feel happy with the way things are? My family has its issues. Estranged sister, self righteous brother, drinkers and completely sober relatives. Me and my husband have our spats, but I love my family and they are just right the way they are.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
A very detailed response indeed and it is really interesting. Thank you for your nice response.
• United States
19 Aug 06
I would love to meet the perfect family. There are no perfect people. This means there are none.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
You said appropriately. Thank you very much for your response.
• India
19 Aug 06
Love each other, care each other , share eachother, adjusting mentality, unity i think these exists in a family that represents perfectness. You see all the fingers in our hand are not equal at all. Same applies to our family. Adjusting all the finger and its suppourt make the hand to hold some thing with grip, like wise all the members in our family with love and unity makes the perfection.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
• Australia
19 Aug 06
no such thing as a perfect family
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
@anup000 (219)
• India
19 Aug 06
A perfect is one where there is love between parent and the child. Children obedient to the parents. Parents live up to the expectations of children and children live up the expectations of parents. Guide the children in the right path, asking children to respect elders, have faith in god, always do not harm others. It is a union of happiness galore.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@rladiga00 (1165)
• India
19 Aug 06
Where does it draw its strength from and upon what its foundations rest. F Father, A and M mother, I - I , L Love and Y you. And it is only the added respect and reverence that can possibly hold the family together in this materialistic world of ours.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@havoc425 (78)
• United States
19 Aug 06
no such thing. Its human nature for people to argue. And i doubt you can live with someone your whole life and never fight.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
• United States
19 Aug 06
i dont think there IS a perfect family. not even on TV are there perfect families.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@limboh (30)
• Austria
19 Aug 06
When everyone loves each other and gets along.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@tysucks (27)
• United States
19 Aug 06
A father, a mother, and everyone loves and cares about each other... A perfect family is a family that strives to help everyone succeed and everyone to develop into the person they were meant to be... the ultimate family is the family that cares...
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@QnAQueen (555)
• United States
19 Aug 06
there is no perfect family in the same way as no one is perfect. we all have our quirks and differences, our problems and disagreements. perfect would be boring, i think...
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• United States
19 Aug 06
A group of people who make you feel safe and at home.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
@noorasie (686)
• Pakistan
19 Aug 06
The group of people bound in relation based on fairness, selfishlesness Each member sacrifies his/her share for the other They trust each other
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@ram_ravi (406)
• India
19 Aug 06
A family constitutes of such members who live for others ,think for all , respects all ,love all and one really likes to stay with them.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Oct 06
Thank you very much for your response.
• United States
25 Nov 06
There is no such thing as a perfect family. Everyone will wish for something diffrent then where they are at. If you have two parents you will say you hate one of them. If you have one then you wish you had both. If you had neither you would want them both and so on. No one could ever reach perfection and it is not something you should wish for or try to achive it will only let you down!
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Nov 06
Very true and very well analysed. thank you very much for your interesting response.
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• United States
25 Dec 06
Your welcome. I hope your getting some great responses! It looks like this was a popular topic!
• India
25 Dec 06
Love , affection , respect to our elders between the family members make a perfect family
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Dec 06
That is one valuable piece of information and thanks for responding to this discussion. Many responders said there is no such things as perfect family.