Do man needs to bend down on his women..

Your first statement: "Man is superior to woman" How can he be when he needs to live inside a woman's womb for nine months and then is dependent on her milk for his survival? Second statement: "Women is taken from the ribs of man" There is no scientific proof for that. You simply can't create a complete human being with a small piece of bone. If this is true, why can't men descend on earth on their own? Why should they come through women (just ribs)? The rest of the problem: In the first place, this guy shouldn't have married. Why marry when he doesn't have the money to raise a family, doesn't even have the necessary income to keep his wife in a place she wants? There is no question of bending down and superiority in marriage. In marriage, you are two responsible adults who discuss the problems of your married life together and come up with solutions that both of you are comfortable with. It is definitely not fair to force the wife to live with two complete strangers, though they are parents to the man. Cheers and happy mylotting.

When a man gets married he is supposed to leave his parents house and live with his wife no the parents. If he can't do that then he shouldn't be getting married. Women want their own homes so they can do things their way. struggling can make the marriage stronger. When a newly married couple live with the parents of the son the parents know too much and will interfere. Two women in a house is like a man having two masters. He can't please them both. He will be lucky if he can please ether one.

Personally, I don't understand why anyone who still lived with their parents would think it was a good idea to get married in the first place. Stable, responsible adults (the kind of person I feel is ready for marriage) should have their own living arrangements outside of their family home. This is just my opinion - before getting married a couple should go through these sort of things, not afterwards. There's nothing wrong with just staying an unwed couple until you have the stability, but I don't get the point of marrying someone you can't live with because you don't have enough money and live with your parents.

I think that they need to sit down and have a good discussion talk through their options and what will turn out for the best in the long run.

Evidently it is unsettling for her to live with HIS parents. Parents tend to get involved in marriages and telling the wife what she should and shouldn't do. The husband might constantly compare her to his mother and without realizing it hurting her feelings. This is a horrible way to start a marriage in my eyes. If you have the goal to have your own house and be married then wait till you can get your own home to get married. If you love one another you can figure this out. If my husband and where getting married trust me I wouldn't want to live with my in laws, I would be worried about them hearing us when we were intimate and also if I want to walk around nekkie I can't do that in her house. I would definately choose the apartment and someday we would get the house. How do you have a healthy marriage with living with your inlaws? Judging you or at least feeling like you are being judged all the time. Just my opinion.

I am a boy, but if I am the man in you context, I will satisfy the girl's request. I think she is right. You are the son of you family, and you've live with them for 20 more years, there's no problem with your continurious living. But the girl is a new comer, she do not love your family at all if you are not concerned. So you should know what she wants is you but not your family. And living with your family will done much hurt to her. So, if you love her, agree with hre and rent a private house belonging to you two only. She is a girl, and girls should be take care of by us.

Unfortunately I have to admit that man has to bend down on his woman sometimes... If I were in that kind of situation I would bend and give the woman the house that she wanted

I think the parents are right. A new wed couples with unstable income is very hard to be financial stable if they were staying out. With staying alone, it was on their own to buy food, furniture, rent bill, utilities, and so on. I think it is better to stay with the parents first and when they're financialy stable, they were able to move out and have a privacy life.

hi, to be honest with you, i think this couple should have some understanding btw the two. their reaso.ns should be right. its not if the man or the women is right it is all about the situation. is the man ready to move in alone and keep his family and have a good future. if not he should make some adjustments. I think the man should understand what the womens reaons are first to move out. then weigh the pro's and corns. wish them all the best

My husband and I moved in with his parents right before we got married. It was a big mistake. I put my foot down and said that I was leaving Florida with or without him. He came with me . It was a struggle at first and we have traveled alot, lived in 10 different states but we now live in Indiana and we are very happy we have been married for 10yrs. So I think if she don't want to live there then you need to do the responsable thing as a man ,and a husband, and leave your mom and dads house ,and spread your wings and fly. That is if you love her and want to stay married to her. You can make it on your own. My husband is the only one that works in this house and we have three children and a house payment so yes you can live with your wife alone on your own without mommy and daddy.