who can help me

Well firstly be honest to yourself , if you are a girl will you like yourself first , be a better man , girl will come naturally yea .

You should go out, and try to affiliate yourself to organization doing some activities you like and meet people there, or if you are the shy type, since we're quite modern lately try that online chat, but you have to be extra careful :)

hey, zzjwhsd, i noticed you are 23. Isn't that your true age? Be responsible, you are a man. Well, Confucius said, "I will not be afflicted at men's not knowing me. I will be afflicted that I don't know men." Be your self and try to know others. I believe when a man is trying hard to make himself a true man, he has a glorious charm to attract others.