Do you even believe in this?

Philippines
May 4, 2008 10:09am CST
Well, I do really believe in the fact that true love is only found once in your entire life so if you get a chance to have it, don't ever let it go. I have learned that there are some ways to keep a relationship working. All you need to do is that you love each other with all your hearts and soul. Don't lie, it is also very important that you are honest with one another. You must also try to keep communications open so that there is sharing of ideas and emotions or problems so that it will be solved by both of you. Stay sweet all the time, that is one of the things that really matters because your partner would really love it, even just the thought of it. Also, when you got hurt you must learn to forgive and forget so that your relationship would really work out. Lastly for these post, you must never talk about break ups because it seems that when you talk about certain stuffs like that, it somehow leads to a point of breaking out. Keep posted guys and have a great time and enjoy life to the fullest while you can... ^_^
5 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
6 May 08
May be you are true. actually you know these are very idealistic situations.still you are sweet to the person. you love that person deeply. but where is the gurantee that person will not love other than you? it can be. the human psychology i sso tough to understand.
• China
5 May 08
Yes,it already became my life a part,my happy and friend is in here.i love it! I can keep here continuously,for friend of mine! I believed is not merely a forum in here,it has provided a study English opportunity to me ,i treasure here very much!
@ky1119 (698)
• United States
4 May 08
I believe in only one true love as well. I've been in love with someone since I was 22 years old. I married him, and was stupid and left him. I haven't seen him in 6 years, or spoken to him. I left him in a really bad way and desperately, if nothing else, want to apologize. I have recently located him and have a letter in the mail. I hope he contacts me.
• Philippines
5 May 08
well true love depends on the understanding of a person, if he always say that the feelings he encounter were true love then true love it is. we cannot define love its all about the definition people understand and believe.. well all i know, as long you feel the love thats true love and theirs n fake love.lol. keep on loving good day..
@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
4 May 08
I don't agree with everything you said. I do 100% believe in true love. And I guess to some degree maybe I believe in only one true love although I think that is sad. I don't want to believe that since my mother's husband has passed she will never find love again. I know he was her true love but I don't want her to be alone or unhappy for the rest of her life. And I know my grandmother found two true loves. My grandfather and then after he passed she was alone a long time before she found my step grandpa but they loved each other fiercly. I agree with being honest with your partner. Honesty and trust are the basis of a good relationship. If you can't be honest with them then what's it all for. Stay sweet all the time? lol I am in trouble and so is my husband. You can't be sweet all the time. It's a part of being honest, you must feel safe to share yourself and your emotions. You have to know that your partner is going to accept you even when you are not perfect and nice. I also don't think that talking about past relationships should be a problem. I mean it shouldn't be done right away nor often but those were a part of your life. They taught you something and they helped you become who you are. If you can never talk about these things then you are not truly sharing each other completely. You don't have to talk about your past relationship details but you might have to reference things from the past to make the present makes sense. Again you have to feel secure and safe to do this. True love is not about finding someone who is perfect but someone who is perfect for you.