Do you Get Sick?

@slickcut (8141)
United States
May 5, 2008 12:52am CST
Ok ladies,i just had to open this discussion...Hopefully you will not get offended...I am NOT Fat,however nothing is staying in the right place....I look fine in my cloths,and people say Oh you are cute, or you look good....Ok but when i look at my body in the mirror when i bathe or dress...My body make me want to throw up!.....I mean i hate my body.I have body flaws you would not believe...None of us are getting any younger but why does everything move around? your waist gets thicker,fat on the belly,midriff,and a bulge here and there..Even when you loose weight ,its still there..Do any of you feel like me,i mean we really don't know each other,or i probably would not have opened this discussion..I am not imagining this..When i look at my body i want to puke,i hurry and dress,so i don't have to see it....
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6 responses
@Polly1 (12648)
• United States
6 May 08
Its gravity honey, as we get older things start going south. It sucks, but that is what happens. Our skin loses some of its elasticity. I try not to look in the mirror, its scary. Once I was walking by a mirror, caught a glimsp of myself and scared the daylights out of me. I jumped about 6 ft. in the air, bumped my head on the ceiling, almost knocked myself out. I stay away from mirrors, the next one I look in will probably break. Can you imagine looking like me, look at me, I have blue hair. I think you are beautiful, all women are beautiful, no matter our size or how much we are sagging in all the wrong places.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
6 May 08
Polly you are so funny girl..I guess all of a sudden i am noticing some things that has really got me scared...I feel great, and as long as i keep everything on i look fine,but girl it sucks when your cloths come off to bathe..Haha..I guess i got a glimpse of realaity...Thanks for these kind words...
@Polly1 (12648)
• United States
6 May 08
If you really want to get a complex. This was years ago too, back in my "younger" days, hehe. I took a shower with my granddaughter, it was the last time too. "Gramma what is that, gramms why is that like that, gramma...." you get the picture, hehe. I could have choked her. I was once getting ready to take a shower, caught a glimsp of myself, had to do a double take, I thought what the heck (the other word). When did that happen, how did one get lower then the other one. Oh my.
@Dadexter (438)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
Hay girl...!!! first of all sory for responding to this discussion..despite being a male....but i think its an open discussion so any one can participate... secondly, the picture that i have used as my avatar does not represent me...I am 23 years old and if you look at me you won't even believe that i am a 15 year old kid...I am very weak....AND I HAVE ALSO CREATED A DISCUSSION ON THIS....!!!! although...I wan't to improve myself too...I want to be like others...like Eddie Guerrero!!!!...but I am not ashamed of myself..!!!I am proud of myself!!!!.....but as i feel from your statement that you seem to be!!... Don't be that much ashamed and hopless!!!...you know God Almighty has created everything on purpose...if God did not you something...then he must surely have given you something else which others don't...just think of it...there are alot of things that only you posess....!!!! Also! it does not really matter how beautiful your body is!!! what that really matters is how much beautiful human you are...beauti lies within you...!!!! "HAPPINESSISNOWHERE" This statement can be read in two ways...Happiness in nowhere, and Happiness is now here...So its up to you how you see yourself and the world arround you...see it again...its very beautiful!!!
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
5 May 08
Thats ok that you responded,even though you are male,its an open forum.I just figured men was not into their bodies like women.My avatar is me,and i don't feel bad about my looks and i am not really fat,but I just do not like my body now..I use to have a cute body,and in cloths it looks fine,however i have had some surgeries and some scars...I had 3 hernia's and another surgery,and it seems it has made a lot of difference,everything is not right.I have some tummy fat that will not go alway and cellulite...Even smaller people have it...I know that the body is not everything but who wants a body thats all out of shape...I know it is inside that counts and i do appreciate all you said and it is true...However i am ashamed of what my body looks like...If you read my discussion i have a lot of flaws and it really gets me down....I supposs i am having aproblem dealing with all these issues...Men do want a woman that has a good body,or i think they do anyway...Maybe i am being vain,but i just feel like a out of shape cow right now...Many women feel bad about their bodies...Thank you for your response...I guess it just goes to show that many women and men alike have body image problems.
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@Dadexter (438)
• Pakistan
21 May 08
Girl........again..I would say the same...you don't have to worry about this problem that much...you sould not feel bad about your body... What you can do is have body shap over...if you are too much obsessed with this problem.....But I believe you don't need any kind of body shape over...what you actually need is psychologist......Consult a psychologist and may this might solve your problem...... STAY HAPPY....STAY BEAUTIFUL
@riveream (111)
• Philippines
6 May 08
Yeah! But I don't get sick when I see my body in the mirror. I just get tired of seeing my fatty bulge in front of the mirror. Usually, when I get dressed, I don't usually dress in front of the mirror because I will really hate what I saw. That is why, I rarely go in front of the mirror.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
6 May 08
Im sorry,i did not mean that i get dressed in front of a mirror,i do not do that..Its just when i undress to take a bathe or shower ,i do not like my body..I also try to avoid mirrors unless i am fully dressed..Lol
@flowerhorn (1011)
• Malaysia
6 May 08
Hope u dun mind getting a post from a fish. Who dun want to be beautiful? We all love baeutiful things,dun ask me why but that is nature. As we live,age do catch up with us. U have to earn a beautiful body by working out, eat health food. One more thing,sleep more will help.It will minimise your sickness. Take some antiwrinkle cream and nutrional food. They do make the difference. Then u will love your body.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
6 May 08
I always love hearing from another fish..Lol...I am doing all this..I guess i just caught a glimpse of me and it was scarey....I do exercise ,and try always to eat healthy but gravity d=finally comes to us all....Thank you for your reply..Also welcome to mylot.....
@checapricorn (16065)
• United States
5 May 08
Hello slickcut, I have the same feeling, I am not a fat girl but I just can't get rid my fat in my belly, I hate sit ups so I know I can't do anything about it. I eat rice a lot but even if I will minimize taking rice, they are still there! but, what I don't like most is my stretch marks at my back! I am annoyed seeing them and makes me cover them right away!
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
6 May 08
well its true having babies will do it for you.I have had five so stretch marks aome with babies...They will fade in time...
@flowerchilde (12534)
• United States
5 May 08
I live in my mind and have no full length mirrors! So... it's not anything I think about..
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
5 May 08
Another Great Idea Flowerchilde...Thanks for your reply...
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