Love really and be loved in return

Bangladesh
May 6, 2008 12:14am CST
I believe this topic is completely related with everyone's life. We love someone (may be girl friend, wife, son-daughter, parents, brothers- sisters, any relative, anyone known or unknown ). but if the love is real (From the bottom your mind), and you did things for that person - sacrifices. But after a long time you understood that person has no feelings or can't feel or misunderstand or avoid or love someone else not you. Then?? I believe most of us experienced this! Love is something that comes automatically, may be never hope for return but when you get those negative feelings- a great shock, depression, problem in mind comes. we used to blame ourselves, may be cry, some suicides, some changes...-is that the reward of loving really? Again in some case we do hurt some one willingly or unintentionally. May be we can do nothing about that but Can we feel their pain? And of course, How does it really feels to be loved in return? Though, i do not have that experience yet. Please share your personal experiences, feeling about this.. Thank you!
3 responses
@agfarm (930)
• United States
6 May 08
Love is not physical.....to love and Be Loved in return ....I love this line Nat king cole used this line in " Nature -Boy " Beautiful piece One of my all-time Favorites. Real love transcends everything we understand here on earth. It is beyond Comprension , or rather should I say ...words. But here's the cool thing....you will understand with profound simplicity , when it does happen to you. your words have a sad feel to them. The Depth of this sadness bothers me. why does this topic interest you so much? True love can not be found you can't go looking for it. It comes looking for you. I'm not sure ....I'm getting a mixed/ confused feel from this whole conversation..... Do you really mean what you are saying , or are you thinking of something else entirely ? At any rate....have a Beautiful day and Many Blessings. I am Rogue.............and.....I AM.
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• Bangladesh
7 May 08
Dear friend, It's a story of my life i'm going through now. I don't want to bother you my friends. Even i know, no one can change my past memories... But there is something i'm always missing a true love.. always. :'( I'm just telling you as you asked.. From the starting my parents, friends, relatives, office mates and finally my wife, i love them( still i do) and want a love from their heart. But at the starting they encourage me, but when they can feel my pain , they just make a distance. whats my problem? i'm feeling them, loving them and then requiring for a support for my mind. Then? they avoid... I feel they have a inner strength, which i do not have since childhood... It like I'm a passer by going to all trees by the road to shadow for a long long time... still searching. Is it really hard to be loved real in return? i'm really sorry if this bother you... my apologies. thanks for the reply!
• Bangladesh
7 May 08
One more thing, Still i believe in other! I feel the whole life my love for others will not change. By the way I love dogs too.
@nengs10 (3181)
• Philippines
6 May 08
Love is a blessing. It's something that gives you goosebumps every now and then due to the different feeling it brings you. To love someone is a responsibility. It is a way of life. To be loves by someone is really a great gift. I always thank the Lord to have friends and families around who share their unending love.
@chiyosan (30196)
• Philippines
6 May 08
no one promised tha love will be all fun and sweet right? emotions are bot poositive and negative.. so when positive and negative things are over... the opposite is presented to us. that is all part of the life cycle.
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