Who is the more sexually adventurous person in the relationship?

United States
May 8, 2008 8:52am CST
In my current relationship, my boyfriend (whose eleven years older than I) tells me that I'm more adventurous than he is . I feel comfortable trusting him with my fantasies, and telling him what pleases me. I think I'm also more willing to try new things with him, because I trust him . How about you?
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@k1tten (2320)
• United States
8 May 08
I dunno... I think both my partner and I are equally adventurous. Though to be truthful she's a little more than I. I trust her to the end of the world so I feel comfortable with trying anything new with her.
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• United States
8 May 08
I'm willing to try anything with my boyfriend once...but it's preferable to discuss it with him prior to actually doing it! He's usually willing to go along with most of my fantasies...as long as it involves something being done to me, not the other way around!
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@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
8 May 08
LOL I'm at both ends..I'm far more freaky and adventurous than my husband but not as freaky as my bf who is a major freak LOL..
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• United States
8 May 08
How'd you get lucky enough for a husband AND a boyfriend? I have a friend who's got both--the hubby stays home here in NJ and the boyfriend's down in Fort Lauderdale...according to her, she's got plenty of what she needs! (but then she's a former burlesque dancer and this is her THIRD marriage!)
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@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
8 May 08
but then she's a former burlesque dancer and this is her THIRD marriage LOL well I'm an ex stripper but this is only my first marriage (my husbands second and my bfs been married before as well but he's long since divorced)....How'd I get so lucky? good question actually....Keep in mind though the hubby is here with me in NY and the bf is in PA and ORIGINALLY I was in Canada, the hubby was (my then bf) in NY then moved to Canada and the bf was in PA....LOL yea I think thats right....Been this way for over a decade too...
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• United States
9 May 08
Do either of the men know about the other? That could be tricky but not too bad, since they don't live all that close! I've considered it, since my boyfriend has a female roommate...and oh yeah, they used to sleep together (I know, I know, no lectures please!); unfortunately, with my MS, it's becoming more necessary for me to have a roommate. But I'm not a bar scene girl, and not widely traveled, so I'd end up having to find someone local...good luck with your relationships!
@freak369 (5059)
• United States
8 May 08
I am definitely the one that comes up with some of the crazy stuff but on the same token, he's only said no to a few things and even then, if I playfully pester him for a little bit he gives in. Trust is a huge part of it and it can make things a lot more enjoyable.
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• United States
8 May 08
My boyfriend is afraid of some of the things I want to do (mostly with him!) . I was married at 21 and a mom 6 months later; I feel I missed out on a lot with my ex (which I'd never have done any of this stuff anyway!) and raising my daughter. Now that I'm single, I feel I'm enough of a grownup that I can make my own decisions, though a lot of the stuff from early on in our relationship was more to keep his attention (and then I discovered I liked it!)
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
9 May 08
Actually Hubby probably is. I'm happy with the comfortable stuff and he's more let's try this or that. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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• United States
9 May 08
Do you think more men are willing to try new things, or more women?
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
9 May 08
Of course, I can't speak for everyone but in the relationships I've been in it's usually the men. Some women are a little more shy then the men. At least that's how it seems to me. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
8 May 08
I think its about equal for both of us, though sometimes, I feel that I let my imagination run wild and then I have her squealing in pleasure, but when she does somethings ... boy, am I in heaven or what! Both of us are willing to try anything with each other, we feel that our bodies are just extensions of each other and enjoy pleasuring each other trying out new things.
• United States
9 May 08
That's a great attitude--so many people are afraid to open up and relax! That's what making love is all about, correct?
• Egypt
8 May 08
I'm Adventure in nature But i don't ask my self about the adventure. So i think ya I'm the more adventure and positive. But are the limits of the adventure in for you
• United States
8 May 08
I'm not quite sure what you're saying here...can you please clarify (and not do it in a riddle)?
• Egypt
8 May 08
I mean do you accept to do anything in making love or you have certain limits.
• United States
9 May 08
Well, since I'm the more adventurous one, I would believe that I'd do anything with him!