How to select my love

China
May 8, 2008 9:22pm CST
My 22 years birthday is coming ,I will graduate from the university soon ,I am not so happy,owing to the passed 4 years ,During which I did not have a boyfriend ,It is a pity .although there are some boys around me ,they treat me well ,It seems that I do not have the feeling .I ever fell in love with a tall boy who show favorable impression for me ,but after some time he had a girl friend who is not better than me ,I do not know why until now .I was in depression for about half a year,and I sometimes hate the love .which is troublesome.I also hate other boys to contact me ,even they just pat on my shoulder, which maybe caused by my experience .I do not know whatto do now .I reject everyone around me.can you tell me your love and tell me how to deal with such feelings?
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19 May 08
it is very bad....... secondly, there is one who deserve your care and love also made......so don't feel bad, i think it is not a right time to meet him.........just wait sometime, bcoz, if you will get a guy after a very long time then he is really very godd and also very caring............believe me....
@sophialin (2677)
• China
12 May 08
hi kity,i also havn't a boy friend during the university time. i think it's nothing to do with your appearance.the key factor is your attitude.if you seem to be not easy to get along,they tend to choose other girls who probably give them more feedback and more possible to be their girlfriends than you,though they may be worse than you in appearance,ability,talent,etc. as we know,basically,there is seldome devoted love in university.two persons decide to be together mainly due to both of them are kind of bored and would like to find something new.based on this relation,boys care rather the possibility of the girl being his girlfriend than others.maybe you take serious attitude to love but they don't.that's why you can't get a matching.i think it's not your fault.