Beauty and Misunderstanding!!!!!
By yogeshdhusa
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
India
May 8, 2008 11:16pm CST
Hi All, Yesterday I met a colleague of my last organization. She i so beautiful and gorgeous but she is in problem because of her beauty....
I will tell the whole thing.. As I told you she is beautiful and on top of that she is very friendly.. but her husband doesn’t like her talking with anyone (may be jealous or possessive ) but her nature is very friendly - cant sit quietly.
Yesterday when I met her she said her husband has asked for divorce because he feels that she have an affair. She said being beautiful is also harmful. She have a girl child and the husband want to keep the child. She is not ready to give divorce and kept a condition that "if he want divorce he should give 5,00,000/- to her".
She knows that he cant give that amount of money. so she will have chance to patch up with her hubby.
She has stopped talking to any one, even she was not ready to talk to me, but i managed to. god help her.
I think the reason for this whole thing is - beauty and the misunderstanding from her husband side. What do you think?
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7 responses
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
9 May 08
WOW!! I didn't know that there are such a jealous husband ever. I sure wouldn't want to be like that someday. This man is really nonsensical. He is already lucky enough to get a beautiful and gorgeous wife, and he is non appreciative that she is so nice as to hold the marriage together and not wanting to let it fall apart. And he is much more cruel to wanting to divorce and keep the child they have had together.
Is this some kind of a conspiracy theory from him? Don't be surprised for all you know, the guy is hiding an even bigger truth and he is the one having an affair. Sometimes, guys do blame women for things that they can't escape with. Either that, or this guy's a nut-wit. 
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@creative_genius (992)
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9 May 08
Hmmm there is no misunderstanding here, just an unfounded mistrust. He shouldn't have marrieda beautiful woman if he had such insecurities. I hope they patch things up, however only if he makes an effort to change and trust her. It would be a shame if she had to become an introvert and not speak to others because of her husbands hang ups.
I wonder how he would react if she imposed the same restrictions on him and accused him of having an affair?
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
9 May 08
its not the beauty that is to be blamed. its the ignorance and fickle mindedness of the husband. why does he feel so much insecur? he is asking for divorce a she is unable to trust his wife?
I think first he should check his mental condition.
i really pray for this lady.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
9 May 08
No i absolutely dont agree with beauty is misunderstood. I think her husband is really possesive and he doesnt trust his wife, not al all. And she really wants to get back with him ? this problem may never end, even if she stops talking with all the males in the world, coz the important thing is lacking, trust.....i do understand she might be seeing how to be alone and also that she might loose her child....but if she isstrong enogh she can do anything...well i just wish her luck in her life....
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
9 May 08
That is so sad for your friend. It sounds like they would benefit from seeing a marriage counselor together. Her husband has some serious insecurities and it is sad that your friend is being made to pay the price for it. She needs good friends like you to be understanding and allow her to vent.
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@promoney (36)
• Romania
9 May 08
it can be very hard for a average man to cope with a beautifull woman, and he gets excessive posesive and jealous, maybe she should of thought twice before maring him in the first place, my opinion is that she should have married a man that matched her beauty and then it could have been ok for both as they could understand one another better.
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
9 May 08
I don't think this is a misunderstanding from her husband. misunderstanding isn't the right word. He sounds like a jealous, paranoid, VERY possesive person, and I'm not sure that he is a very good person for her. Of course I understand she probably can't afford to leave him, especially with a child, but I really do feel for her.
She really needs to sit him down and explain to him that she will never cheat on him, but she needs to be able to have her friends, like you. She has to let him know she needs her space, but she will never do anything to betray his trust after allowing her to have her space.
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