Do you believe that YOU CAN CHANGE FOR SOMEONE?

Singapore
May 9, 2008 10:19am CST
i think yes. I can change for someone whom i love so much, and he should love me more than i am. lol. I would change my bad attitude, bad behavior, and makes myself better. I have lack confidence, hope he can help me to change it... hahaha. But i dont want to change totally just to follow what he wants, i dont wanna lose my self totally.
7 responses
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
10 May 08
I think that if you decide that you want to change for someone then it is entirely possible. I for one do not want to change for someone else. If they cannot accept the way I am then too bad for them.
@Elixiress (3878)
10 May 08
I could change aspects of myself. I think that a person who is good for you and you are good with is someone that loves you for who you are but can also change you for the better.
@itsmepinky (1300)
• India
9 May 08
No i dont think i will change myslef for some one. I am happy being what i am. ~Pinks~
@5mayday (1053)
• Norway
9 May 08
I belive that many people can change themself because of the one they love. Because I have 2 friends that are like that now and they have changed alot since they found their lover. I think I will be the same when I found the one that I truely love ^^
• India
9 May 08
i am always what i am. and i would be too. i wont ask anybody to do something or not to do something because i like/dont like it. so, i expect others also to be the same to me. i can adjust with others to some extend. but it is important for me that the other person should be able to vibe well with me. otherwise, even sharing a room would be very difficult for me...
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
9 May 08
I don't suggest that you will simply change because of someone. Changes should take effect with in ourselves. To change because it is unhealthy for us anymore. To change because we hurt others because of who we are. To change because you feel there is that need for being better. To change because you want to change, not because of someone. We lost our identity of we are, if we become subject to others.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
9 May 08
In my opinion, I think I will and I can chnage for the one I love very much. But I don't think my girlfriend will change because of me. She is very dependent and always wanted me to follow the way she wanted.