How many children do you want to have after geting married?

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@sdas86 (6076)
Malaysia
May 9, 2008 11:18am CST
I would like to get some opinions. How many children would you like to have after you get married? Any planning?
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@sharay (2771)
• India
13 May 08
In fact, i had started a new discussion regarding my dilemma as to have one more child or not..now i have a 3-y-old daughter, i am not sure to have one more baby or not, i dont feel like having one more considering financial and social situations, but my family members are pressurign me to have one more baby saying so many reasons which are also valuable (but my husband is not insisting much though)...if u can think of anything about this...give me any suggestion too...
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
13 May 08
In my opinion, having 1 child is very less and your child will be very lonely. It is better if you can have 1 more. Personally, I hope to have at least 2 children and max 4 children. :-)
@laglen (19778)
• United States
12 May 08
I have one but she is now 14. I wanted more until she was about 10. Then the age difference was more than I wanted. So, I will wait for grandbabies!
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
13 May 08
The age difference is too wide. Wait for Grandbabies is also good. :-)
@x7heavens (365)
• Singapore
11 May 08
I know that my answer is a bit overdue cause I am already married and have kids but would like to share anyway. Before I got married, I was sure that I would tie the knot at 25 or above and planned to have only 1 or 2. But as fate would have it, I got married at 19 and had 7 kids at 27. What a plan! But I love all my kids and never regret for a second having them.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
12 May 08
Wow.. You have 7 kids at 27.. Sometimes it is fun to have a lot of kids but the financial part will be disastrous.
@magikrose (5432)
• United States
10 May 08
Originally I only wanted to have 2 kids. The thing is I had 2 and then I got married to my current husband and he didnt have any onf his own and stated that he wanted 2 of his own. so we talked about it and decided to have 2 together. I know 4 seem like alot but ya know I love them all and I am very happy.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
10 May 08
Wow... Congrats. That's great. You will be very happy when you are old because you have 4 children to take care of you. :-)
@itsmepinky (1301)
• India
9 May 08
I would like to have only one kid. I would give her / him all the love that i was denied of as a child. Will love my kid with my whole heart. ~Pinks~
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
9 May 08
Thanks for the responds. For me, I would like to have at least 2 children and the most 4 children.