advice please...

@aiyreen (286)
Philippines
May 10, 2008 8:26am CST
i feel really bad due to my ex's ignoring my son. we're separated for a about 2 1/2 yrs now and he lives in the province, about 7-8 hours away. he used to give financial support that's just enough to put his son to school. that's it. nothing more... but last year, he send smaller amount and then stopped sending money. i learned that he got married. so i let it pass. but now that summer's over and i need to ask him again so i send him a message thru his cellphone. no reply. we tried calling him but ignored our call... and worse, i sent another message saying his son wants to speak to him and still no response. really annoying...
3 responses
• India
10 May 08
i think u should forget such a person.life is very wonderful and u have the most precious thing with u and that's ur son,u should be thankful to god that ur son is with u and ur ex did not try to take him away from u.u should be happy and never let ur son to feel alone without his dad..that's all i can say
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
10 May 08
thank you... it just pisses me off trying to run off from his obligation and ignore his own son... so selfish
12 May 08
saurabhnagwan is right, get over him
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
12 May 08
you know mikesville_ph, getting financial support from my son's father is definitely not being not over him yet. i'm just being practical. i think that's his obligation and it's just right for him to give what is rightful for his son. he should be man enough to face his responsibilities. If he's not willing to give financial support, i don't think i can let him see his son either.
@rexiemay (402)
• Philippines
10 May 08
there are guys who leave behind their responsibility after getting maried. what you can do is to ask him to support his kid. legally speaking, you could ask for support through a court case. in this way, the law can protect your kid.
@xusnake (278)
• China
10 May 08
so sorry to hear that. i think if give alimony to your son which is the court verdict . you can apply the court to help you .have a nice day.