now !i cant take this any longer,what is wrong?

I have heard other mylotters complained that as well. Fortunately, I haven't really encountered it yet eventhough I regularly visit the site. I hope that I would never have to experienced that because oh boy.. it is really frustrating waiting for just a single page to load.

This happens to me all the time. Some days myLot seems slower than others. Earlier today I couldn't even get it to load at all even though the rest of my internet was working fine. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Maybe just come back to it later and see if it's going faster for you

I wasn't able to get to mylot much at all yesterday. When I was actually able to post, the site seemed to be down. I kept getting server errors last night. We had to leave for South Carolina at 3 am and I needed to stay awake to wake my husband up. I came to mylot to wind down the time and couldn't even read the discussions for about an hour. Thankfully after blogging and sending a few emails I checked back and mylot was running smoothly once again.

It can be slow for several reasons! One of the reasons is about the bandwidth and all that! Too many people logged in and using the site at the same time! Try being logged on and using the site at different times and see how that works! Otherwise, be patient cause there is not much that you can do about it!