Your Perception Of Sexy...
By twoey68
@twoey68 (13627)
United States
May 11, 2008 2:05pm CST
We all have our own ideas of what’s sexy and what isn’t. Some ppl find long hair sexy, some find long legs sexy and some find tongue rings sexy.
I could never have my tongue pierced…I’m too afraid of needles to even try it. I also don’t think their sexy…though some ppl do. I also find them really annoying when ppl are speaking to me. Thankfully Hubby’s never felt the urge to get his done and hopefully never does. No one in my family has theirs done although back when we were foster parents one of our foster kids did get his done...he thought it was wildly sexy.
Do you have your tongue pierced? Do you think having it done is sexy? If your spouse went out and had it done would you find it sexy or icky? Is there something that you find really sexy?
**AT PEACE WITHIN**
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23 responses
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
8 Jun 08
I'd never have my tongue pierced. It can cause a lot of damage to your teeth. I don't find it sexy either.
What I do find sexy is the mind of a person. If they are open and honest and intelligent, then I think 'wow! they are truly a beautiful person'.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
27 Feb 11
That happened with my sister. Both her and her boyfriend had their tounges pierced. I cnat even imagine how bad it would hurt I cant think about it. I remember that it was had for them to talk normally for a little while and when their tounges first got pierced they were very swollen. If it was me I would have been terrified of it swelling completely and blocking my airway or something from an allergic reaction lol. Anyway my sister chipped her front teeth from the metal hitting against her teeth all the time so she has to take it out.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
8 Jun 08
I have no tongue piercing and will never want too..It will scare me! sexy for me means neat and clean physically, all parts of the body as well as the clothes they wear,smell good,clean shoes/sandals and most of all knows how to carry himself/herself all the time.
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@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
12 May 08
I find the tongue piercing icky. I don't find anything alluring about it whatsoever. I can't put my finger on what I find sexy in a guy. I love confident men, and currently, I think Gordon Ramsay is the cats' meow. He's not great looking, but, wow, is he sexy!
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
13 May 08
No way would i have my tongue pierced..Yuck it sounds awful painful,and it would be my luck they would hit a vital spot and i would die..I do not think it is sexy,i think its stupid..I have no desire to mutilate my body...I would not go with a man that had his tongue pierced,and i would never allow my children to do that..Now that they are older they feel the same way i do...
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@crackhead (1826)
• India
12 May 08
I am totally against body piercings, i just hate it. Well dressed with Long hair and a cute smile on the face is what i feel as sexy. I almost puke when i see some one with that body piercings since it gives such a creepy feeling. I really dont know why they do that and what is the necessity of such piercings.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
12 May 08
i personally do not like tatooes and piercings except for good old pierced ears. i am not into tongue rings or nose rings or belly button rings. just not my thing. i am a bit more conservative i guess.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
12 May 08
I think I must be an old fuddy dud! I find it very sexy when hubby cries at a sad movie!!
@lovespecialangel (3632)
• United States
15 May 08
My last husband had a tongue ring. I don't look at it as being sexy or not, but it was nice. I would never get one. The way I look at it is, it hurts when I bite my tongue, there is no way I am going to pay someone to put a rod (or needle) through my tongue. I wouldn't mind it if my husband got one, but I don't mind that he doesn't have one either.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
12 May 08
Sexy for me is a big smile and a happy outlook. I find a wink from a stranger very sexy even a wink from a partner can set my pulse racing.
I would not have my tongue pierced and would be put off by someone who had. I like tattoos but some of them are not very well thought out. Some guys have some really dumb tatts that are a big turn off. If it was a choice between tatts and piercings, I'd choose tatts.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 May 08
I have no piercing in my tongue and absolutely that is something I can't have, I am scared of it! Sexy for me is the product of cleanliness inside and outside and every time someone will open their mouth, it has always a sense! I find it very attractive always!
@J_Dawgs (217)
• United States
12 May 08
I go nutty over long hair, I have always liked long hair. Just something about it is sexy lol. Though I think there could be such a thing as TOO long lol. But long hair is always a good thing as long as it is kept up and taken care of. Not like Long BUSHY hair or anything either. Long, Straight or wavy hair...can be curly too...but not afro like lol. My girlfriend has long hair and it is one of the things I like lol. My two cents...
~*~J_Dawgs~*~
@verisexisara (24)
• United States
12 May 08
I think if you can be yourself thats hot enough for me.
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
12 May 08
I am so totally against having something floating around in your mouth.. I would never have it in mine and don't like to have to talk to people when they have one in theirs, it really make me gag.. I am afraid of the needles also but I do have a strong gag reflex and that is one thing that gets it going.. I am not against piercings but not the tongue.. Hubby got a tattoo when we were younger and he went into the army, he has "Donna" tattooed on his upper arm, but I don't think that I would welcome the piercings even from him..
@katisaurus (1038)
• Canada
12 May 08
Tongue piercings = not sexy. and annoying. I hate people who play with them while they're in company. I know girls... and guys who have gotten their tongue pierced JUST for the sake of a relationship and I think it's retarded. (to put it bluntly)
I really hope my boyfriend never gets it done. I think he likes facial piercings like that though. I know when I said I wanted my nose done he talked me out of it because he didn't think it was attractive, at all.
Something I find really sexy, as weird as it sounds, is a guys ego when he has that romantic side to him. I really love confidence in a guy and when I met my boyfriend he was pretty much the most egotistical guy I've ever met cocky, conceited, but there's so many times when he's just the biggest sweetheart and I love it. :)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 May 08
I don't know anyone with their tongue pierced.I don't find them sexy.But if my man wanted to get his tongue pierced it would be okay by me. I would still find him just as sexy as before.what do I find sexy? It depends on the man.with Jonathan Rhys Myers is his voice. With David Caruso, it is both the way he lowers his voice when he is serious or angry and his red hair. With Tom Selleck ,it was his legs. The best legs on t.v.With Paul Newman, Robert Redford, and Brad Pitt it is the beautiful face.And with Howard Stern, it is his eyes. It all depends on the guy.
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
12 May 08
No, I do not have my tongue pierced. I thought about getting it done once on a whim, but I ended up getting my nipples pierced instead. I have since taken them out and my only piercing is in my ears. I rarely wear earrings, though. Piercings are not really my style. If my boyfriend got his tongue pierced I would be repulsed! It would look very bad on him. Generally I do not think they look good on men (or most women) and I certainly do not find them sexy, but to each their own. As far as what I DO find sexy, the number one thing is tattoos... a man covered in tattoos is the sexiest thing to me... too bad my boyfriend has zero 
@scarlet_woman (23465)
• United States
12 May 08
i don't want one personally,but if somebody else did,
that'd be fine with me,it's their tongue.i don't find them particularily sexy,i'm more into tattoos.
@elemental69 (1561)
• Ireland
12 May 08
I got my tongue pierced, but it was as a bet. My brother bet me 50 that I wouldnt get it done, and I ended up 50 richer and he also paid for me to have it done. Its not that I find it sexy, I dont look at myself with my tongue hanging out lol. And I know a lot of people who have it done and you cant see it when they talk, its only when they stick their tongue out at you that you see it..:-)
