Do you know the meaning?
By cortjo73
@cortjo73 (6498)
United States
May 12, 2008 8:34am CST
I was thinking last night about the phrase, "Take everything she says with a grain of salt."
What does that saying mean? Does it mean that everything she says (or he) lacks an ingredient? Is it related to sarcasm and maybe to cut the sourness of sarcasm you need to tame it with salt...like with margaritas? What does it mean? Did I get it right? Does anyone know?
I could probably google the origin of that phrase and find out by myself but, I find it much more fun to put it to my myLot community to see if you all can teach me!
Do you have any other sayings or phrases that you have pondered the meaning or the origin of? If so, what are some sayings that confuse you but, you might still use them? LOL!
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@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
13 May 08
"taking it easy", "not getting to affected by a situation", that's what it simply means.
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@AmbiePam (120752)
• United States
13 May 08
A grain of salt is small, so small that you can hardly see the one grain. It isn't even worth looking for, or mentioning. And so saying that implies that it is just that unimportant. We don't care about one grain of salt. Now if the whole salt shaker emptied, we'd have ourselves a big 'ol problem. 

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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
12 May 08
I believe it to mean to take things like that with some common sense and skepticism. Okay LMAO here it is "it means that a copious measure of skepticism should be applied regarding a claim"
yup just as I thought, don't believe everything is as it appears to be. There probably is a small amount of truth in what she says, but a whole lot of embellishment.
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
12 May 08
LOL! I still don't get why they recommend "a grain of salt". LOL! I wonder what the origin is. I read somewhere, actually a couple of times, some origins of some popular sayings. I can't remember probably any of them but, they were cool to learn about. I bet this is one of them that actually has an origin as far as why people started saying it. Not just what it means as far as the definition but, when and why people started associating "a grain of salt" with "a copious measure of skepticism...". LOL! I understand how to apply the saying. I don't understand what a "grain of salt" has to do with it! LOL!
But, thank you for your help! And, thank you for taking the time to look it up!
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
12 May 08
LMAO sorry ... I would think somehow the grain of salt is metaphorically associated with the small amount of truth the "grain".
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
12 May 08
Okay here is a bit more that I found.
With a grain of salt
Meaning: With a healthy dose of skepticism, suspicion, and caution.
Example: Dave has been known to stretch the truth a bit. Take what he says with a grain of salt.
Origin: Salt is now an inexpensive and readily available commodity. But it was once very valuable due to its high demand as a food preservative and relative scarcity.
Salt was thought to have healing properties and to be an antidote to poisons. To take (eat or drink) something "with a grain of salt" was to practice preventive medicine. One would do this if they were suspicious that the food might be poisonous or may cause illness.
Thanks to Ron Akers
The phrase and meaning is thousands of years old, the Latin equivalent phrase is "cu*m grano salis".
Thanks to Barry Harridge and Richard Laurent
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
13 May 08
I have not checked up any site for meaning of your pharse or any dictionary, but I understand that it means that you have to bear everything, even if it said with bitterness by her. It appears to me a sarcastic idiom.

@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
14 May 08
Thanks for your comments and confirmation.
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
13 May 08
Thank you for your help! It is a sarcastic idiom. Usually, when people use it, the person with which they are referring, tends to be sarcastic or snarky. So, I know that you use it as a way to not let that person bother you.
Thank you for your help!
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
12 May 08
hi cortjo73,i think it means you should never trust all that she said.she may be a person kind of unreliable or like to say everything exaggerated extragerated.thus be careful to what she says and not take serious to it.
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
12 May 08
i guess 'with a grain of salt' means rather retain parts for yourself not give out all.
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@Alnitak (423)
• Italy
12 May 08
Do you have any other sayings or phrases that you have pondered the meaning or the origin of?
If so, what are some sayings that confuse you but, you might still use them?
Since I'm Italian I've got lot of foreign idioms I don't get :P
One was "The Apple of my Eye". I've found out the meaning a few days ago and it was really nice.
I remember too an English one: when they're having a drinking toast they say to each other "Mud in your eyes". Does anyone knows where it comes from?
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
13 May 08
I can't remember any others ones right now.
And, I think I remember reading the origin "apple of my eye" but, I can't remember it. I would love it if you could remind me.
And, what is the origin of "Mud in your eyes" because, if I ever knew that one, I can't remember it?
If I can think of any others, I will ask you!
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@Alnitak (423)
• Italy
13 May 08
"The apple" was the way they were calling the pupil because they were thinking it was solid and spherical (that now we know is not, because it's a hole) so since when you love someone you look at him very much, his image could be seen reflected in your pupil like if he was inside the "apple".
I wonder if Gwyneth Paltrow named her daughter thinking about this pupil thing... LOL!
About "Mud in your eyes", I'm not sure about this, but I've read that was an idiom used by peasants to wish a good season because the more they would get mud in their eyes working in the fields, the more they would have been rewarded with good harvest.
Another explanation says that it was used by soldiers because when they got MITY that meant that a grenade exploded next to them and this meant that they survived, so it's used to wish a long life.
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
12 May 08
I don't know the offical meaning, but I can guess.
Salt is added to food to make it more palatable. So, I suspect 'a grain of salt' with something someone says means a particular statement is offensively untrue and needs something added to be tolerable. Since it is only a 'grain' of salt, the offensiveness is probably not too large.
This would mean the phrase "Take everything she says with a grain of salt" indicates that person lies a lot but the lies are mostly intended as not really big lies.
That's my guess.
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
12 May 08
You might be onto something. I know it has always meant not to take someone too seriously but, that "grain of salt" thing has always confused me! LOL! And, I wondered if it has something to do with making something taste better going down. More digestible. LOL!
Thank you for your interpretation. I think you are probably right!
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
12 May 08
I understand that it means not to take a person too seriously. But, why "with a grain of salt"? What specifically does a "grain of salt" have to do with not taking someone seriously? That is what I have never gotten. I have always understood that people are saying not to take a person too seriously. I just don't get how salt has anything to do with it! LOL!
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@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
13 May 08
OKay. Got it. I for one dont really know the explanation of that phrase. At least now I know the meaning of it. Thanks for the info!
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
14 May 08
To me it means that "that person" doesn't always speak the truth- so you need to take it with a grain of salt- Oh yeah- now it makes perfect sense-- lol..... I just know that is what I mean when I say it. I think it comes from way back!
How about--- there is a pot calling the kettle black- or vice versa!
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
14 May 08
LOL! See! It is easy to explain what people mean when they say it but, it is harder to say why exactly a grain of salt and what a grain of salt has to do with someone who is speaking a non-truth! LOL!
And, all I know about the "pot calling the kettle black" is that a pot and a kettle are usually both black in color so, when someone starts pointing out faults in someone else while they themselves are guilty of the same faults, it is like a black pot calling a black kettle, black! LOL! Now, who started that and why, I don't know. I just know what it means! LOL!
Thank you for giving it a shot as far as the explanation! LOL!
@carolscash (9491)
• United States
12 Jul 08
I always assumed that it meant to take what they say as a very small part of the real truth or that she only had a small part of something right. A grain of salt is small so that is why I thought that. I know it means basically that so the idea of it being small just stuck in my mind.
@kriskhedkar (877)
• India
12 May 08
the meaning of the idom take something with pinch with salt means you do not completely. SO the meaning of this sentence she has a tendency to exagereate. You can find teh meaning of the phrases on http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com
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@whiteheron (4222)
• United States
16 May 08
Typically, if I heard, take everything with a grain of salt, I would assume that I am being told to be wary and not to trust what she is saying as she might not tell the truth. I think that perhaps salt, because it is pure and white and was supposed to counteract evils might have been employed in homes when people were not exactly truth tellers.
I usually know the meaning of the sayings but often times do not know their roots.
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
16 May 08
It actually has been reported here a by a couple of other responders that it was considered a preventive medicine because it counteracted poisons in food so, you are on the right track!
I always understood how to apply this saying but could never figure out why salt! LOL!
Thank you for your help!
@abdulmajeed (75)
• India
13 May 08
"Take everything she says with a grain of salt." It means in my sense that what she says take it seriously. Don't take it easy or mischevously.
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@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
24 Jul 08
It simply means for you not to take what she says seriously. What she might be saying could be untruths, exaggerated truths, or even blowing their own horns.
Why is it a grain of salt? What I had learnt in school is that a grain of salt is actually very minature in size. As such, we downsize whatever the person as that.. dispensible and not that important.
Hope that this helps!
Some sayings that confuse me sometimes are, don't rock the boat. I don't understand how this saying came about. There is no boat to rock in the first place. This proverbs means do not go against the norm and do the 'safe' things that everyone else is doing.
But why? Why boat and not say the bus or some other objects? Hmm...
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Thank you for your help. That makes sense.
As for yours, I think that they say the boat because if you rock it, someone might fall out which makes rocking a boat dangerous. Plus, it tends to make waves which can also be dangerous. So, rocking the boat can be an all around dangerous thing to do. So, it is best to just keep things low key and not say or do anything that could create potential for danger. Does that help?
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
8 Jul 08
LOL! Yea! I understand the meaning behind it. I have just always wondered what a grain of salt has to do with it! LOL! Basically, the origin of the saying. Someone else explained that salt was sort of considered medicinal in its ability to stop a poison. That is how the saying came about. Weird huh? Could you imagine thinking of salt as medicinal? LOL!
Thank you for your response!
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
12 May 08
I dont know where the saying originated but I do know what it means....It means to not take what said person is saying as truth since they have a tendency to embelish or even straight up lie..
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
12 May 08
Thank you RavenladyJ. I do understand how to apply it and what it means as a whole. What I don't understand is what a "grain of salt" has to do with it! LOL! It is one of those sayings that I can use as I understand how to but, I am trying to figure out why "a grain of salt". LOL! One of those silly sayings that, if we search hard enough, we can find why people started associating "a grain of salt" with lies. LOL!
Thank you for your help!
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@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
13 May 08
I don't know the exact meaning of this phrase, but I have always taken it to mean that the person has nothing to say of great importance. I mean, a grain of salt is small right? So I thought that meant to take the importance of what a certain person is saying to be the size of a grain of salt.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
21 May 08
Take everything with a grain of salt means do not
believe everything she says. she is leaving out
something or lying about something. You need to
season what she is saying a bit. a prophet is without
honor in his own country. in other words strangers '
sometimes honor someone much more than his own family. lol
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@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
29 May 08
something else people say close to that: let it roll off you like what lol
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
8 Jul 08
I think that is possible!
As far as "run with the hounds and hunt with the hare", that one is tough. But, my guess on the meaning of that one would be to have fun and play loudly like a hound would but, when it comes to the hunt, be quiet and go almost unnoticed? LOL! That is a good one. I don't think I've ever heard it before.

















