can any one help me
May 14, 2008 1:52am CST
well this is a section where we can tell situations of life where we broke our heart well there are many reasons for which this happens let me tell you one of the deepest of my situations i used to have a crush on a girl when i was in 6th standard well at that age i dint know what that attraction was i used observe her with out her knowledge then my school life passed by and then i some how forgot all those feelings for some time. unexpectedly the girl joined the same engineering college which i am pursuing my degree and i really felt love towards her and tried to propose her at first she responded as if she was happy with it i dont know what has happened she simply gave me a message to not contact her i took it in positive way and stopped contacting her then one day i heard things about her from my friends that she proposed another guy but then he is a bit like used to betray girls ... some one like that but that person contacted me so that he could know about her the good thing i have done is that i kept every thing secret.. but gave him advice of not to hurt her as i know that she was sensitive at that time some how he rejected her proposal then one day she tried to contact me but i didnt give a chance to do so now she is totally confused about herself she is not at all concentrating on what she is doing i hear all negative things about her these days i just want to go to her and tell her that she is spoiling her life but now i dont maintain that much of relation even to talk with her more over i have completed my degree and left the college now her remembrances and pinching me can any one tell me how i could help her out so that she could atleast help herself................!
14 May 08
If you are really that interested to help her out, or, are you sure she feels miserable with her life right now? Or maybe she is just being happy and living it to the fullest! But seriously, you have to rebuild first that friendship with her in order to create new connections. Because it doesn't matter if you have the purest of intentions of redeeming her from her miseries but you lost that connection anymore, your efforts will just be futile. It's either a slam on your face to just let you mind your own business or shel'll tell you frankly that it's her life she's living!
16 May 08
I would say that if you still indeed have feel that you owe her something, then why are you awaiting for anyone's approval for you to do so. I know, in a world like today, we need to be rational and equally realistic, but, there are phases whereby we simply need to listen to the tiny voice hailing from simply our heart, which at times knows no wrong,or no right, but simply the welfare of the one for whom we endlessly wish good. One more thing, beyond crush and love, there's something called humanism, and with some pure acquaintance, it forms friendship, its a sacred form of bond, so be a selfless friend, try contact her and see to it, that you can bring things back to normal, maybe she simply really needs you, so be there for YOUR FRIEND atleast, He will help you, God Bless You!