Have you ever?
@melvinandheather1 (540)
United States
May 14, 2008 10:33pm CST
have you ever thought that you were in love with someone and then come to realize that it was just a bad case of puppy love. When I was 17 i really thought that I was in love with someone, however I was completely wrong. I realized this when i met my husband while i was with this other guy. I never cheated on my boyfriend at the time, however, I realized that I should be with the man that I am married to now.
After the guy that i was seeing cheated on me with another woman and about 2 years went by, i started seeing my husband. I realize looking back that I new what I was thinking at that time liking the man that would be my husband. Kind of weird though.
Has anyone ever realized that sometimes things happen for a reason. At the time when my boyfriend cheated on me i thought that it was completely over, everything in life had ended because of this one guy, however, 2 years later I am so happy to have the one that I really love.
has anyone else ever been in any boat like this? Or am i the only one. Am i wrong for thinking like this? Let me know.
3 responses
@quiltedblessings (1067)
• United States
15 May 08
yea, I totally thought I was in love with a guy from the time I was 14 till I was 17. Discovered that I had no idea what real love was.
Then I met my now husband, and discovered the reality of love. Its a wonderful thing.
@melvinandheather1 (540)
• United States
30 May 08
Love is awesome. You know when dating the other person it feels so real, like if anything were to happen then the whole world would just come crashing down, but when you look back you know that it was supposed to be that way.
I remember when we broke up I felt like my life was over, I was severly depressed and I had no idea that life would even go on without him. The puppy love felt so strong, but looking back, I realize that that was all that it was.....puppy love. Thanks so much for sharing
@ameeluv (388)
• Saint Lucia
15 May 08
OMg
i thought i was inlvoe wid my summer fling...
we use to creep at night and i couldnt wai tto see him everyday..
then we got separated and we kept on calling an i tried ot emailll but it jus went flat.
but honeslty around that time if i wa asked who i thought id get married too i wouldve said it was him hands down
it was soo strong
its like iw anted him on the spott...
goshh
now i jus look at him ... like
lol ur the dude i thought i was in love with..
n we r totally cool... lol
@melvinandheather1 (540)
• United States
30 May 08
lol just like me. It feels so real and just like you I would have said him hands down. I would have thrown everything away to marry him, and now i'm can't stand him. I wonder why love is so different in that sense. It's hard sometimes to know true love from puppy love or a summer fling. It feels so real.
You wholeheartedly believe that he is the one and would do anything to make it possible, but then it just goes away. lol same boat. Thanks so much for sharing.
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
15 May 08
i had plenty of cases of that , sometiimes they always started on the school bus like id always thought a girl was attracted to me because she would always sit next to me , and i would save those seats all the time , but when it came to getting off the bus and seeing if she was really interested that wasnt the case cause she really wanted to sit down lol like i can just imagine how delusional i was back then but i guess thats apart of growing up
