Are still a good friend with ur ex bf/gf ?

May 16, 2008 2:04am CST
when my ex gf and i decided to broke up we said we still r going to be good friends! and we are still good friends when we r with other friends too but when we're alone shes just my ex! are you still a good friend with ur ex?
4 responses
@cream97 (29164)
• United States
16 May 08
No, I don't even communicate with them , like that. Hell, I don't even remember there number, and I ain't trying to either.
@meiteoh (420)
• Switzerland
16 May 08
Good on you! In my case, I'm only friends with my 2nd ex. The other two...well, I lost touch with the 1st and remaining friends with someone who cursed me and my family is not something I like to do. The 3rd...I tried to remain as friends and a good one but every time I talk to him, he brings up the past, starts the blame game and gets all passive aggressive. I still talk to him - once in a blue moon - but it's just cordial at best. I find that it's hard to remain friends with someone if they can't be matured about the whole break-up and if they keep bringing up the past. =.=
@djedtek (232)
• United States
16 May 08
ehhhhh, not really but im not even sur eon how she feels about the situation because when she calls to say hi to our daughter i really dont talk to her that much and she asks why, but before it was ultra attitude and she didn't want anything ot do with me! she might feel different but i just stay away and keep communications thin but keep it respectful in front of our daughter!
• Hyderabad, India
16 May 08
you are lucky. I had my EX and she is married now. She is with him thought to stay away from their life. You may never know right.