would you tell your friend?

@teena22 (422)
Italy
May 17, 2008 8:14am CST
you saw your friend's bf/gf kissing another one. and you don't want your friend to get hurt, of course. would you tell her/him? or rather wait for her/him to find out? i would choose to tell, no matter how hurting.
6 responses
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
17 May 08
I wont tell him. Because I might be the one his girlfriend is kissing with. Well I think they have to discover it themselves, I really dont want to interfere with them even if they are my friends. Perhaps I would just ask my friend, if she/he really love his/her partner. Maybe he/she is also just fooling around or kissing others also, what do you think?
• Philippines
17 May 08
...and besides, it might just a friendly KISS
• Netherlands
17 May 08
hmmmm...really Long! ... lol.. I know truth hurts but yeah if she/he is really my friend then I would tell her.;) .. no matter what.. ;)
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
17 May 08
I will. By hiding it, I am giving her an additional pain when she will find it out.
@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
17 May 08
I would have to tell as well. HOWEVER always know that when you tell a person something like this, unless they are a very close friend, they will most likely get mad at YOU.
• China
17 May 08
To tell he immediately .I think he or she will be injured sooner or later if his/her partner loved another,better tell him and ease his pain ,otherwise he will be hurted more than now.....
@Adelida2233 (1005)
• United States
17 May 08
I would also tell my friend. In a lot of my friend's relationships though, I am friends with both of them, so it would be hard. I do not believe in cheating, period. There is always the option of not doing anything, so I really don't understand cheating to begin with. Back to your question though, even if I were closer to the friend doing the cheating, I would still confront them(later, not while they are actively engaged in the cheating). I would give them the option to come clean to their significant other first, and if they didn't, then I would do it for them.
• Philippines
17 May 08
Me, too. It would be devastating to her if I did not tell her sooner. Because she is my friend, I don't want her bf/gf cheating on her. I would tell her and helped her until the healing process.