Do I have to

@p1kef1sh (45681)
May 17, 2008 3:05pm CST
Imagine that you are tired, or feeling down, or just not in the mood. But your partner really really wants to make love to you, and for once, you want to please them and not simply reject their advances out of hand. How do you get yourself going.
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@mummymo (23706)
18 May 08
Oh honey I would just think of you of course! xxx
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@mummymo (23706)
18 May 08
Hugs to you my 12 (?) year old lovely! xxx
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Mind of a 12 year old in the body of a 50 year old. XX
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Mummymo, flirting with a 12 year old boy. I am blushing. LOL. We had a lovely time. Problem solved. XX
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
17 May 08
Think of Nova!! :)
• United States
17 May 08
LMAO!!! You know what I mean, she's a sexy mama inside and out!!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
My jaw hangs in amazement. Whatever can the lovely Skinny ever mean.
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@inked4life (4224)
• United States
17 May 08
I've never been so tired or down that I can't get up (pardon the pun) for a little hanky panky, especially if it's my partner who is making the advances. I am single again after 11 years and would welcome any sort of advance at this point....LOL
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
I envy you. I went off it for over a year once. However, all that i can say is good luck. I am sure that an advance will be forthcoming. Otherwise I am afraid it will have to be a DIY job.
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@ruby222 (4847)
21 May 08
Im reading the peoples posts at the mo...and a year!!!omg....dont tell me that!!!
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
17 May 08
I say pop a Viagra and a Prozac pill and go for what you know, hehe.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
I have neither to hand I am afraid Rozie. In fact all that I have is my hand. (Rude boy).
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
17 May 08
Well if Palmula is all you've got to work with then, hey. I am sure your wife knows what it takes to get you going. Hopefully she can be assertive and take charge if she is the one who wants it.
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• United States
18 May 08
I take a deep breath and sigh then I take control. I have this hip thing I do that makes it dang near impossible for him to go any longer than I allow him to. 10 minutes later he is happy and I get to sleep
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Hip displatia can be such a disabling problem. But I am pleased that he understands your pain Cyn my love. LOL.
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• United States
17 May 08
oh and sometimes just simply making yourself, you'll get more into it!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
There's a lot of choice there. I must find something in that lot. Thank you.
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• United States
17 May 08
your welcome dear!
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@Antianara (608)
• Australia
18 May 08
just let him start the ball rolling lol
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
He did and those balls sure rolled.
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@agfarm (930)
• United States
17 May 08
P1key.....whom are we talking about here? Has mrs. P1key been Chasing you around the house all Day ( AGAIN?????) Or have you Simply Exhausted her out? I could see how that would Occur! Not everyone has your Stamina! Well except for at least 5 other/ um.....six other Men in the entire world that I know Of! But I'm not tellin' there Names! If it's you P1key......then I'll Bring you some warm cookies & Milk.Would you like a Foot-massage? Is there anything I can do to Help? A Bed-time story Perhaps? Let me Tuck you in Dear!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
You are very kind Agfarm. I am saving myself for some creativity. Who am I kidding? Tuck me in and do your worst. LOL.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
18 May 08
Shower and ice cream, plus usually the partner is very helpful by teasingly touching me, too!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Eat ice cream in the shower? I can actually see something in that. But it's too rude to write about here. LOL. Thank you for that image. Yum Yum.
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@J_Dawgs (217)
• United States
18 May 08
Lol answer, any way possible if you EVER want them to do the same for you lmao! Do whatever it takes, whip out anything you have to so that you can get youself going! I'm sure there is SOMETHING you can do lol. ~*~J_Dawgs~*~
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Yep, we did something alright and we were very pleased with the result. LOL.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
18 May 08
What a wonderful question, usually it is me who does not stop just so you know. However go with the flow, allow it to happen because your lover should excite you as much as they did the first time you kissed. Ainge
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
The flow truly flowed Ainge and happiness reigned. LOL.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
17 May 08
If I remember correctly, I used to imagine I was a leaf floating down a sun dappled stream moving faster and faster as the current increased, knowing that soon, soon the coming waterfall would find me shooting over the edge into thin air and then down, slowly down to resettle in the stream again.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
Very prosaic Sparky, but I like the analogy to that feeling you get as you build up, explode and return.
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@alls4u (8)
• China
18 May 08
I think the best is,you conmmunicate with your partner frankly,he/she will understand,because he/she maybe has the same situation before.This way,there are not misunderstandings.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Good advice. Thank you and welcome to myLot.
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@Solace (19)
• United States
18 May 08
Remind myself that no matter how bad I feel before hand, I always feel 1 million times better during and after! I even get frequent headaches/migraines, but "I have a headache" doesn't mean I don't want to do it in our relationship. It usually means "Hey, please come f*ck my headache away!" It seems to help them a lot. :)
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
It does have that effect doesn't it. Mind you they come back again and you have to do it all over again. LOL. Thank you and welcome to myLot.
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
17 May 08
What I do in that case is tell my husband that it will take a bit of "warming up" for me and he knows what I mean and he will do what he has to so that both of us can enjoy it together and it is not a 1 sided enjoyment. I cant stress enough how important communication in a relationship is. Be open and perfectly honest with your partiner so that there are not any miss understandings.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
That's good advice thank you Magikrose.
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• India
17 May 08
Start for play and start yourself for it . there is no other way to survive yourself that time ...he he Thanks !!!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
Thank you.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
21 May 08
He has to get me going if he wants me to. There are several sensitive points on my body that I like him to touch - as long as he does the work then I'll go along with it too lol
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
21 May 08
rofl
@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 May 08
So cruel. So cruel.
• Canada
18 May 08
Let's see....I could just try and think of what Nova would do? lol. Or I have pretended that he was Mel Gibson or Patrick Swayze on occasion.....
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Nope Annie. Mel Gibson isn't doing it for me? LOL.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 May 08
Wouldn't you like to know Annie. Sometimes I surprise even myself. LOL. Come closer and whisper what you are thinking my lovely....
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• Canada
18 May 08
Fantasize, P1key, fantasize!! Silly boy. You're funny. Just think of someone that DOES turn you on. How's that? Or remember when a good time was had by all, with enthusiasm. What are your fantasizes? If you tell me yours, I'll tell you mine......
@ruby222 (4847)
21 May 08
Cor blimey i missed this one along the way!!...now what would i do???...well for a start you are taking it that the boot isnt on the other foot here Piky....usually im all pashed up and Mr Ruby is glue to the television..now i was wondering if i got myself a remote control if that would do any good....but in hindsight...nahhhhh....so i hang my what once were smalls ..but now are largers back in the cupboard again to try again another day!!!...
@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 May 08
I was Mr Ruby in this respect. It was me that didn't want to. Anyway. A few threats, a little, overt violence on her behalf and I was soon dancing to her tune. A good time was had by all. Here's to Christmas!
@ruby222 (4847)
21 May 08
Ive just thought!!!...we are a bit like Jack and Vera Duckworth !!!..or rather like they were...love them..
@ruby222 (4847)
21 May 08
Well tomorrow we are taking a little trip to Mr Rubys allotment where we or rather i am going to massage his ego and admire his seedlings...and plant a dahlia tuber or two im hoping..but he has a caravan on his allotment...now maybe i should tie him to the bunk beds..and beat him til lhe screams for mercy...and submits!!!...it could work..but im not going to bank on it!!.....
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
17 May 08
What sturner said, lol. You'll eventually find you are not too tired after all;)
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 May 08
I am thinking about that.
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