am i really bitter?
May 18, 2008 9:38am CST
i've been in a 5yrs. relationship but then it lasted almost 2 months ago...he cheated on me, i really hate him for that,especially if he always tells me that he loves me so much and he did it because im to perfect for him,and he just want to have fun,and for that i really did lot of things to make him feel bad i posted his name and everysite that i visited and relates to him,and even wishes him to die...i really can't forget what he has done to me...im i really bitter?hahahaa
• United States
18 May 08
I can not say that you are bitter so much as you are just hurting. The things you have done were out of hurt and revenge, and although one day you may feel bad for doing those things, at this point in time you feel you are justified. In some ways you may be justified, but you know how people always say to clip your tongue, even when you want to knock someone out. I hope that you will start the healing process, because what he has done and his justification for this is in no way right. Good luck with your relationships in the future.
22 Jun 08
no.. you are not bitter.. I did the same thing as you did when I broke up with my lover.. I manipulated her friend so that they would fight because I really hate her for giving me so many promises and then not being truthful.. I felt so much hatred and vengeance and I could not control it because I am not used to dealing with these kind of situations. It is just normal for an extreme emotion such as love turning into it's extreme alter-ego which is hate.
19 May 08
Well your in the state of hurt right now and I don't blame you if you say something about him because you are hurt that's why you are acting like that. Well now you have to move on and learn to forget all the bitterness you feel inside so that you will go on with your life also. You will find a man that is more deserving your love that him. So don't waste your time to think about that guy anymore. Learn to forget him that's the best thing you can do.
27 Jun 08
yeah! your still bitter. hmmmm.. Don't find something to you rnew boyfriend that he don't have because if you love your recent boyfriend meaning you love the guy because of all of him. Not, asking why he is like that, my last boyfriend is not like that. Something like that. And we can say that you still loving your past bf. It's a litle bit confused. I hope you find yourself that you finally forgive him. Don't blame all that caused him to find another woman. ok?