Love before marriage or after marriage........
By iftikharsumn
@iftikharsumn (1471)
Pakistan
May 20, 2008 2:47am CST
Love after marriage is mostly successful here.Love marriages often fails here and get a lot of troubles what do you think about it.
what is your Experience.
6 responses
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
20 May 08
I believe, whether its love or arranged marriage, it holds no importance, for a matrimony to sustain, it doesn't really matter whether love occurred before or after marriage.. For a matrimony to sustain and always holds in itself the real essence of trust, sincerity and love.. Hence, it wholly depends on the couple..
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
You are Right dear.
it depends on the couple.
Thanks for your post.
Dear where were you,you didn't post any new discussion.?
have a nice day.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
20 May 08
Ok now, most of the arranged marriages are sucessful, beacuse people just mary beacuse they have to marry. They want to get marrieda t a certain age, have children at a certain age and also start a afamily at a certain age. So they r bound to be with whomever their parents choose, and continue to live life just as it seems to move, some might fall in love, some might just be doing the routine thing. But i still cant wrap my head around, how can two people get married and they dont even know anything about each other except their names. Well in love marriages, we marry the person we love, we know him, understand him and know about his likes n dislikes, but after marriage, when we find ourselves, not adjusting with the person we know, we tend to have fights. But i dont agree most love marriages r not working. I did love my man b4 marrying him, and now even though we have disagreements, we r still 2gether...
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
its difficult to marry a person whom you don't know in your countries dear.but here its doesn't matter most of marriages are arranged marriage.thanks for your view and post
have a nice day.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
20 May 08
Nope you assumed me from the wrong countries i guess, i am from India, and here arranged marriages are the only resort and also a family pride n heritage. I did love n marry, i was frowned upon by all my relatives n all the people i know, i just cant understand y? I have to live the rest of my life with some1, so y shouldnt i choose? But as it seems, 68% of marriages in India r arranged and the toll of those arranged marriages ending in divorce are rising rocket high
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
right dear.
first of all nice to hear that you are from India.
Thats your experience and i have wrote is mine.
You are right at you own.
thanks for your views dear,have a nice day.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 May 08
actually in my country also most of the marriages used to be arranged marriages. but i have a different notion. actually i think arranged marriages are some people get married for the sake of getting married only. may be it becomes love less for whole life. I do not see any point in marrying without loving.
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
every one have its own view.
what will happened if after marriage lover change and your partner start ignoring you.
its most hearting then arrange marriage i think.love marriage is famous in most graduate persons.people like me want to just marry who don't love any girl now.
Thanks for you nice view and post
have a nice day.
@MinamiKesh (527)
• Philippines
20 May 08
um..i'll bet it depends upon the person concerned.....
we all know that LOVE can conquer everything....so no doubt both lovers can have successful marriage if both have faith with each other...
God's love must be the center of the marriage..i think it's the secret weapon there..
*jam*
-live life- be natural**
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
nice,
love can conquer but only love.Thanks for your post dear
@jyoti_medha (567)
• Mauritius
21 May 08
I think its a matter of trustand the way of living of people. If the couple is happy being in each others company i think the marriage will be successful.
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
21 May 08
yea you right matter is trust
thanks for you post dear have a nice day
@doctorgenius (558)
• India
9 Jun 08
I dont believve in this
Love is wat is neededd to fuel a successful relationship
Be it a marrige or a before marriage commitment
M in love n m sure after i marry my Girlfriend..Even then ill be the same n we ll still be the same..In love with each other..More n more
Its not Love before marriage that wud spoil it
Its Taking for granted After marriage that wud spoil it
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
10 Jun 08
thanks for the post dear have a nice day and happy posting
