to whom marry

i'll give you a situation. consider that there is a boat sinking in a deep water. you are at the bay watching...crying... god gives you a chance to save just one of them.no replacements....simply tha one will live. who would you name and why is a answer you have to give youself(or this friend of yours needs to do). man has a adaptive nature. he can live in any environment if he survives long enough. if the man she loves cannot fall in love with her.its usless to try.rather go marry the guy who loves her and one day she'll love back.if you stay long enough with the ugliest person on this earth.after somtime you start noticing that he isnt that ugly afterall.....it isnt the face that changed.its the perception that changed. think about it

I'd think if the love was only on one side, regardless if it was the man doing the loving or the woman, it could be disastrous. Had your friend thought of maybe seeking a relationship, possibly with a view to marriage, with a man where they both love one another?

I was always told to marry the one that loves you, but I myself could never marry anyone that I did not love. So unless we both loved each other I would not get married.Life is way to short to be married to a person you do not love, you would never be happy.I tried it, it did not work out. I stayed married for 21 years and finally got a divorce.