Better to have a brain tumor then....?

By Amy
Abernathy, Texas
May 21, 2008 1:05am CST
Okay this is not to meant to rile up anyone who has on or knows someone with one - my mom is battling cancer right now and I don't take it lightly. Yet I wonder if it would be better to have an operable tumor - and a good chance of recovery - and yes I do realize that not all tumors are operaple- but I wonder if this might be better then to suffer from the excruciating headaches I get since my pregnancy. They include visual problems and problems with speech and olfactory hallucinations if there is such thing. I get dizzy too and lose equilibrium. Either that or folks around here burn a lot of wood/trash. I get ice cream headaches without the icecream. Fast stabs of pain - either when I don't have a headache - or when I do - its all of a sudden worse. I can't do anything about these. The doctor wants to put me on a beta blocker ( I have excellent blood pressure but its like a prophylactic) and pain medicine. I can't right now, still nursing - but what will this do to my liver after years? With a baby, its so crucial I'm at peak operating condition. No parents or babysitters here to take over for me while I lie down in a quiet, cool, dark room. Do you think you'd ever wish for a worse condition - if you knew that surgery could fix it, for sure (and there is no for sure really with tumors but almost positive) rather then years of medicine? I can't even massage therapy at the school for the amount of migraines I get each week. And I get them rather really relaxed or not. And I drink a lot of water - my triggers are mostly scents and visual. Although sometimes they slam in as I wake up - but this discussion is about what I can do or triggers but rather if you would ever choose the worse condition if you could choose - that could be remedied rather then a long term condition (that as a full condition includes seizures - although I haven't had one) that gets in the way of every day life?
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@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
22 May 08
You might consider taking vitamin B2. You only take one a day and it helps control migraines. I suffer from chronic migraines and it has reduced them by 75%. I am fairly sure that there is nothing in the vitamin that would hurt your baby. The vitamin will turn your pee a beautiful shade of lemon yellow, but it won't hurt you. When you get the horrible headaches, start working the web portion of the skin between the base of your fingers. Rub the area firmly with your thumb on one side and a finger on the other, rolling the skin between the digits. Keep doing this until the pain between the fingers ebbs. It is a reflexology technique that I learned from a friend. You'll find after a while that the webs will have little areas where there is a sore bubble. It's working that sore bubble out of the area and it is somehow connected to the brain. You'll need to work the four webs on both hands. You might have to do it a couple of times each side, but it hopefully will help with the pain. It worked for me and I hope it might help you.
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
When you say you suffer from migraines do you mean horrible headaches or the genetic heriditary disease known as Migraine where headache is one of the symptoms along some or all of the following, tingling in extremities, nausea, vomiting, light hallucinations - or blindspots and even siezures? The cause of a migraine is the opposite of headaches - the blood vessels in the cranium vasodilate. IF you know all this - sorry! Love your response, thanks for the detail! These sites dispel many myths about migraine including the prevailant one that stress and depression is a causative factor: http://www.migraines.org/myth/mythreal.htm http://www.migrainedisease.com/
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
some bouts of migraine occur without headache as one of the symptoms. Oh and you can also try feverfew and ginger!
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
31 May 08
I suffer from migraines, the horrible pain, light sensitivity, heaving your guts up migraines! I was diagnosed by a neurologist, who had my mom drive me the 100 miles to his office while I was suffering with a magnitude 5 migraine...Mom was a rock, listening to my dry heaves during the hour and 45 minute drive to get me there. I also suffer from ocular migraines, which is the flashing lights in the eyes without the horrible pain in the brain. Those are frightening as I have had them where I was nearly blind!! I have found that the ocular migraines are precursors to a full fledged migraine, so I take preventative measures to avoid a migraine. I wish they were just horrible headaches, those I knock out with Tylenol and keep on going. The migraines put me in bed until they are over. Thank you for further information on taking care of them...I will check into it.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jul 08
artemis432 there are very few operable brain tumors and a lot that kill people so I would take my chances with migraines there are a zillion meds now just for migraines and one is bound to work for your migraines. I think you should go to your doctor and tell him the med is not working and get him togive one that will work. also study what triggers your migraines and avoid those things.I know a lot of people that are migraine free and they have been given certain meds, afterhaving been on others. good. luck.
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jul 08
First, Hatley, thank you for your response. I'm glad for those people who have the money for prescriptions and found one that works. Not everyone is so lucky - either to have the money (we don't qualify for state help either) or to find something that works. As I say in my conversation starter," Yet I wonder if it would be better to have an operable tumor - and a good chance of recovery - and yes I do realize that not all tumors are operable". And as I say later on, do you ever wish you could have something more serious if you knew that an operation would take care of it forever (and I added in paranthesis that there is no for sure, but for the sake of this the idea is that it would be a for sure) rather then suffer. I do know many of my triggers. I can't go to the mall and crowded places because scent is a big trigger for me and some people bathe in perfume, cologne and aftershave not to mention all the candle and other stores that have scents so strong. And there are some houses that I can't visit because the person uses plug in scents, scented candles or those incense sticks. Even if they know of my suffering and don't use them, the scent is there. Or they smoke. I can't use our laundry room at night because the light is flurescent light which is bad in itself but this one flickers. My landlady hasn't changed it yet. Also certain lights - flashing or a fast ceiling fan - or certain camera tricks in movies like spinning. And certain foods with MSG - so I've learned all the names for MSG. I can't be on meds now, still nursing my baby. He should be fully weaned soon. I hate the idea of taking medicine regularly for life - its hard on the liver. Another reason it would be nice to just have a condition, operate and be done. I'm not saying that I would be happy to find out such a thing, but I'm saying if it were operable and it was a success, remember this is just a what if question with the conditions being that the tumor is operable with a very good chance of recovery. Its hypothetical. Tumor or long term condition which for some, who try many medications, there is no help for, for some it is a disability. it would be preferable to having a condition forever. And many medications for migraines (and different ones work for different people) work when you take them BEFORE you get the migraine, when you are getting your precurser symptoms like eye problems - a neck that stiffens all of a sudden I just found out is a precurser - or for me a strange feeling on the top of my head, prickles like its going to sleep - the doctor gave mine and other symptoms like this a name but I forget it. I'm forgetful, what if I've forgotten my medication - or run out - I don't have insurance for prescriptions, it would be sky high for the beta blocker (prophylactic) and the even the medicine by itself is expensive) so there would be many times when I don't have the medication due to money. Or what if I'm too busy to notice the symptoms or can't stop what I'm doing to take the medicine?
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jul 08
Oh and another trigger - taxi cabs - for those drivers that wear weird perfumes or have three or four (one is trigger enough) of those air freshners.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 May 08
I don't think I would.
• India
22 May 08
i wont definitely