does a man who doesn't help you to do any housework at all really love you?

I don't think that whether a man does or does not do housework can really determine whether they love you or not. In all honesty, years ago men did not do housework at all and yet they still loved their women, right?

just because a man doesnt help with the house work doesnt mean that he doesnt love you. I am an at home mother of 3 ... a 6 year old and a set of 5 month old twins. My husband will get up at 430 am and head to work and return home around 8pm. he works 60+ hours each week just to support his family. He goes to work when hes sick or sore to provide for the ones he loves. When he comes home some nights he will get home sit on the couch and pass out. an even though i am so very tired i know his extent of physiclllabor is worse. He has to do the same things day after day break when he is told... if i wanted to not do the dishes one day i wouldnt have to they could sit an extra day or if i wanted to say forget all the cleaning today lets go out and enjoy th eweather i could he cant.. my man does heklp out, he provides, he does all our daughters homework with her, he still gets up for the middle of the night feedings with the twins, he does the lawn work and takes out the trash and fixes the cars and fixes anything else that needs to be fixed. BUT even if he didnt do any of that i would still know that he loves us

I don't know whether the man who don't do any housework love his wife or girlfriend or not, but I think man should do some houseworks because it's not right to let the woman do all the houseworks.

I get where your coming from. I had a virus the other day, i could hardly move & was vomiting etc & i had to ask my husband to do the dishes. I thought " surely he should just help me on his own accord as he knows i cant do anything" but then i remembered, he is so hopeless at thinking ahead or outside the box. It doesnt mean he doesnt love me. It just means that he doesnt think. I know he loves me because he shows it in other ways, but domestic stuff just is not him. I am slowly realising that, its not ignorance, they just dont think like women do.

Short answer is no! This all depends on each couple's circumstances, the man may be even more tired than the woman. Is the housework urgent or just a fussy tidiness? Do they both go out to work? It sounds like you're on the way to splitting from your partner if he doesn't "...do any housework at all..." ... it does sound like he's a bone idle sod! But have we got the full story I ask?

well, if he doesn't help you with the household chores, it doesn't mean he don't love you.. if your husband is working, expect that he'll be in the house playing computer games or relaxing because he is tired working and want to rest himself from the stress in the office.. as we also get tired cleaning the whole house and taking care of our kids.. what you should be bothered with is when he doesn't even asked you how's your day today? how's the kids when he's out? because, that kind of husband really don't have care for his wife and kids! :)

The Only House - work My Man has to Do is In Bed! He's Damn good at it , that's all I need I can take care of the rest!