Are You Clingy Lovers!
May 22, 2008 8:40am CST
I am 21 year old and am very much in love with my boy friend who is 25. Our relationship has been 2 years old now. We both are studying and have our individual targets. We have tried to avoid daily meetings almost thousands of times. Promises have been made, determinations have been done but all was in vain. Day-by-day our expectations for each other are increasing and we have started spending almost 2-3 hours together daily. Nothing sounds good unless we talk to each other over the phone in the morning everyday. The time we spend on phone talking to each other has increased to an average of 2.3 hours daily from 1.5 earlier. We have great respect for each other's feelings and emotions. There is nothing which we hide from each other. The bond of love is getting stronger as the days are passing. Everything is Ok from the perspective of our relationship but the thing is we both are working full time with different organizations. After spending 2 hours together and 9 hours at work, it becomes tough to manage time for our respective families and studies, and it's clear that we wouldn't achieve our targets unless we work hard. Please let me know if you have also gone through the same situation anytime in the life or it's happening with us only. How can we focus entirely on our work and studies for the time being? How to control our emotions?
23 May 08
I am certain that there are a few million people like you who cannot stand not seeing or talking to each other for even a short period of time. I think this is very prevalent with young lovers and is in no way indicative of anything unusual or abnormal. One thing is certain though, it will slowly subside and be replaced by something else.