It's not you, It's me...
By drsparkle314
@drsparkle314 (529)
New Zealand
May 25, 2008 12:06pm CST
No offense but how many of you have used this breakup line or actually believes it? Honestly for me it's probably one of the lamest breakup line... it's the simplest, kindest(as some may say) and easiest way to say goodbye to someone... How about you what are your views about this?
4 responses
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
Those who use this statement is lack of self-confidence for the relationship. They feel "inadequate" of emotionally bravery. It may refer to "how weak you are in my heart", but this line will never mention out. When they try to re-organize the breakup word, then they find a mutual breakup line, just like what you'd mentioned in your title. It's not heavy for the listener, nor heavy though for the speaker.
No matter what the line is, when someone totally has the intention, any words won't make any difference. It means "good-bye".
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
26 May 08
Yep that's right... when it comes to break ups no matter how much effort people try to transform into kind words it wouldn't make a difference... like you said.. it still means goodbye... thanks for the response...
@leateagee (3667)
• China
26 May 08
You're right! This is the lamest line. This sounds familiar but I can't remember the guy anymore. Hahahaha. Well, its easy to say to be honest with your lover if you'll break up and don't be defensive and protective. Reality really hurts but after that she'll/he'll still survive. Life is like that. Most of my lovers were hooked by other girls. I guess I wasn't good enough for them. Take care =)
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
26 May 08
Hmmm if that's the case the actual truth would be that they don't deserve you at all it's not that your not good enough for them but I believe it's the other way around... if they left you just like that then it's their lost and they are the ones who are not good enough for you... Take care too... thanks for the response... =)
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
25 May 08
It has been coming to 7 years for me and my bf. WE have numerous quarrels and attempts to break up, but this line doesn't sound familiar to both of us. May be it is more to those who are still inexperience or new to relationship. Whenever someone ask for breakup, this involve two person, so stating break up line like this is very irresponsible to the other one.
I am lucky that it has never been said to me. I really wish it won't in any future.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
26 May 08
I agree in fact I think only people without any actual concern for their relationship would say this to their partner. Thanks for the response.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
25 May 08
Yep if he used this on you then he surely doesn't deserve you... thanks for the response...







that ran the same s*** on me... I am glad to be gone of him.. It was so much better this way..