I don't want to make another mistake. What kind of guy should I be wary of?

Hello there, although you have failed once in finding your love one, you shouldn’t give up the hope. And you shouldn’t think some of the men are the same as they are individual. When you meet a new love one, what you should do is take the relationship in a slow pace. Meanwhile, use your natural feeling and judgement to sense and get to know him. You will find Mr.Right at the end. Good luck!

The Last Lecture, a book by a man named Randy Pauch, gave excellent advice in his book. He told his daughter, who was 18 months at the time, that she should pay attention this advice: when trying to figure out the good nature of a man, observe his actions and ignore what he says. The book's author is dying of pancreatic cancer, yet he's a very good-natured person giving advice that I think most people could benefit from. Best of luck to you, and I hope that you come to love someone who deserves it.

Never trust anyone that either comes on too strong or wants everything to move too fast. The best relationships are those that develop over time. You have to really get to know someone before you should trust them with anything, especially financial things. There are just too many people out there today who are all for themselves and don't care what happens to others. Basically, you can't trust much of anyone any more.

I reckon be wary of them all,if you always have your gaurd up you cant get burnt ,I seem to be attracted to the bad ones too so I cant talk but I know I am always a little wary of everyone these days,dont trust anyone til you really know them and dont let anyone close to your heart til you ae confident they arent going to break it and this could take years or months who's to say but just be wary of everyone and take care.

I understand perfectly! If your boyfriend is short of cash, dump him. If he asks to use your phone to make a long distance call, dump him. In short, if he asks you for any financial consideration at all, get rid of him!!! When you meet someone you might like, don't tell them any financial information at all. If you have to lie and tell them you don't believe in credit cards, so much the better. Tell them you invest all your cash in mutual funds or something, then they know that your assets can't be accessed easily. Best of all, refuse to talk about money. It's NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS!! It's your personal business and only when you become legally his wife is it his business. And really, not even then. He has no right to your pre-marriage money. For the trait that screams "I'm the One", I would say that physical attraction should be tossed out the window. If you feel like a man is the perfect compliment to you, that's a good clue. Someone who shares enough philosophy with you to have common ground but can also teach you something. Ignore lust. That usually leads to bad matches. If you're into his mind and soul, lust will naturally follow but not lead. That is, you may not be physically attracted to him at first but as you get to know him the physical attraction will appear. Hope this helps. I've made a LOT of mistakes in my life and hope they help you out a little.

Here are some warning signs: A guy gets too involved too quickly and says he loves you right off the bat. Shows jealousy way too early - and too much - in a relationship. Is controlling - tries to tell you whether you can visit with friends and which ones. Has unrealistic expectations - is looking for perfection. Says you complete him. Says he needs you to complete him. Wants to isolate you from others - at first just when he's around, then later all the time. Blames other people for all his problems. In relationships, at work, everywhere. Is easily insulted or has his feelings hurt. Has rigid gender rules. These are all signs of someone who may be an abuser. If he/she exhibits them, run for the hills.

When you think the guy is really sweet, that is the dangerous guy ! You may also notice that the guy breaks promises numerous times. That is another dangerous guy ! I hope that helps. Best wishes to you !

Maybe you could put all guys on a probationary period, where he has to prove himself. You would purposely not fall in love with him until that time was over. And, he could prove whether or not he was in for the long haul or just being a player and some loser. Best wishes for finding a new honey. Be well. Good luck!

Well anawar, nowdays I have to ask if they have a car, a job, and if they have a house and live alone!!Also if you can communicate with them, are they easy to talk to.I am like you I trust anyone, and end up getting walked on and hurt.Make sure that their ex's are really in the past.That they are secure, do not need to borrow money from you.Yes, watch out for the super nice ones. I found out that a lot of them are "wolfs in sheeps clothing".Once they get you, they will change.Watch out for the clingy jealous ones, the control freaks.Well you are a very smart lady, I think you really can spot trouble a mile away bt now.I wish you the very best.

The only advice I can give you in this, would be to follow your instinct.. we all get gutt feelings from something a person did that made you feel uncomfortable dont just dismiss the feeling pay attention to it. We have built in security most of the times, always look for the worse and hope for the best. As soon as you feel like you are being used or taken advantaged of leave you are probably right.

Here's what I look for honesty and integrity...and usually you can tell by his actions in situations with his friends, you and others in general. Work ethics, because I work hard and I respect and understand anyone else who does the same. Reflects character in a big way. Realism is important too. Women definitely do not need men in thier lives who are not realistic about life, love and women in general. Oh and he has to have a nice set of shoulders....so my vanity came out there. Also, I am still single so go figure....But I know him when I see him and I don't bother with the rest. What is the longest that you've been single?

I usually go with my gut instinct when it comes to guys, but I have noticed that some girls' guts just don't seem to tell them when to stay away. I think one good thing to look for is body language. When you talk to him, does he look you in the eye or is he constantly checking his cell phone for text messages or constantly looking around the room when you're talking with him or hanging out with him? Is he honest with you? This can be hard to prove, but does he seem to dance around direct questions that you ask him? If he can't seem to give you a straight answer, you might want to keep looking. The super nice ones aren't always bad, but then again you never know. Just try to take it slow and not put too much of yourself on the table, so to speak, before you have a chance to really get to know the guy. There's nothing wrong with making him have to work for it and earn your affections.

In my case I would avoid the guy that I wanted most lol lol I seem to fly around all the pretty flowers and land in the cow crap when it comes to men!

Money is not the most important thing,but if the man is not willing to spend money for you,he doesn't love you very much.If the man don't give you his key,and keeps his phone when he takes bath,he does not trust you and does not love you very much.Else,aways look at his eyes,what he say and what he does can be cheat you,but his eyes can't.

We cannot pre dictate the terms to find the suitable other half.Its the heart which speaks when we come accross some one.And coming to the point of doing a mistake by selecting a wrong one ,we cant know about the other if wont be close.But you should be careful that the situations wont get out of hands.Some times Mistakes only teach us the right path.

There's no definite answer from a guy's point of view.. Because there are some guys who are really sincere and that's the way they are.. while some guys will tend to be lazzing around, but deep in them, they are actually very faithful and down to earth in relationships.. So it's actually quite hard to judge on the outside.. Maybe u can start off by being frenz for much longer period of time, and if the guy is sincere, he will be patient for your sake..

Be wary of the guy who brags and makes himself out to be JOe GotRocks because he usually is an office boy in the firm. Also a guy who has the manners of gorilla, and avoid the one who talks about his mother all the time as he might be a mama's boy.Avoid the one who ' tells loud and irritating jokes. thats all I can think of.

never give yourself right way without giving him the test.

I can understand you.First analyze the guy whether he flirts too much;secondly check is he going to spend for you?.Next avoid him if he is asking any money from you or phones from you.This would be the easiest way

Yes , always listen to your gut it could make all the differnce. Stay away from someone who doesn't have any goals in life or who hasnt been able to hold down a job.There could be some hidden issues. Someone who drinks too much and who spends too much time with his friends . Sometimes being too nice is not always because they are a fake . They could just be a nice man. Love is a risk , but for the most parts you should just know . Bad boys sometimes really are just bad boys.