how to deal with regret

China
May 25, 2008 9:29pm CST
We always make mistakes, we always miss opportunities, we always meet unfairness,so we always regret now and then,but regret is not the solution,on the contrary,it make things worse,block you way to step forward,and make you always feel guilty . Now the question comes, how to deal with it? My suggestion is work,work,and work,until you don't have time to think about it,what about yours?
5 responses
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Regrets may be consider as a challenge and don't take it seriously it will kill you. I agree with work it will keep u busy and forget about the problem. Charge it to experience as they say. Move on and learn from previous mistakes and never commit again.
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Keeping one self busy is one good solution. Regrets must be consider ar challenge and should not commit the same mistake again. Charge to experience as they say. Forget about the past and move on.
• United States
26 May 08
A person should not have any regrets, because at the time it is exactly what they wanted. One should not look back with regret, just look forward.
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
26 May 08
Good solution, work, work,work, until don't have time to think about it~! I almost do the same thing, i eat, eat and eat, wash and wash clothes, sleep, anything that will keep me busy, will prevent me from thinking. It does have effect, i love this. Enjoy life~~
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Yes, I agree. Working is one of the good ways of evading regretful thoughts. I also believe in giving yourself enough time to breath fresh air..by yourself alone. It is through it that you can reconcile things, you can think of reasons why it happened, and most importantly, it is an opportunity for you to find ways of getting up and recovering from such regretful moment. This sure work.