do you hold Grudges???

hello, i honestly dont hold grudges to anybody i feel that inn life we have to learn and move on. i dont like the feeling of having negativity in my heart coz i cannot sleep at night so id rather let it go. what i mean of letting go is facing it and letting that person knows how i feel it if they are friends or family BUT if not i just let it go and move on. THOUGH, knowing myself once i get hurt for more than 2x by the same person and the same reason i TEND to shy away and be cold to the person coz that is my way or protecting myself. i feel that id rather not have such relationship if i will just end up hurting myself over and over again. it is not healthy and it is not good IMHO if i will continue such relationship i will just hurt myself or hold grudges in the end so why let that happen. i do learned easy from past mistakes so i have the tendency not to do it again. it helps me and it sure gives me a better perspective in life. i dont like to sleep knowing i hurt anybody it is not easy and i tried my best to make it right as much as i can. takecare!

Oh, I don't forget. I can hold grudges for years. A lot of people see it as a character flaw, but it's survival instinct for me.

Hi metal_monkee! I can easily forgive anyone who hurt me but I usually never forget what he/she has done. I really don't want to forget so that it won't happen to me again. I just want it to be a learning experience so we both can avoid it happening again. Take Care and God Bless! Celebrate Life!