What is more important ...LOOKS or LOVE ??

India
May 26, 2008 4:51am CST
If you had to select between the two,what would you choose? Would you choose a handsome hunk,who concentrates more on his looks than you OR would you choose an average looking person who loves for what you are ?? As for me, i would go for the latter. The average looking guy who would love me. It would even spare me the tension of all the other girls who would like to be at his side at all times,lol!! On a serious note,looks dont remain for ever but love does have a fair chance of remaining forever!
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78 responses
• China
27 May 08
Good looking is appealing to me, i like to see homesome man. But he will get old, beauty is not for long time. I will choose an average looking person but he loves me at heart.
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• United States
30 May 08
Love , like beauty , is in the eye of the beholder. I would pick Mr Average over Mr Pretty every time.He would mean more to me than a guy, pretty or not, that doesn't listen to or love me.After a while Mr Pretty would bore me.Especially if all he has to talk about is himself.
• United States
30 May 08
Mr. Dream guy would be both great looking And he would love you too.
• India
30 May 08
Most of the responses i got chose Mr Average...very less of the hot hunk. Most of the people want love in life than a showpiece!
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
29 May 08
i would choose love. Many that have looks is all they have.
• India
30 May 08
A very right and sensible decision.
• Philippines
26 May 08
im experiencing the same dilemma..but i chose the not-so-hunky guy..and im glad i did..
@adrico (204)
• China
26 May 08
oh my god .i am so sad to hear that .coz i think i am a hunky-guy. hehe
@16031981 (449)
• Jamaica
28 May 08
i would rather love of cousre it is said that beauty is skin deep. i know of incidents were persons use the looks to cover up and 90% of them abuse there relationship.
• India
30 May 08
A relationship like the one you mention is obviously a lie then. Very true beauty is skin deep, its the heart that loves, matters. Everything else is superficial.
@saverio (402)
• India
26 May 08
Not a question to ask.Everybody i mean everybody goes after looks to a certain extent....knowingly or unknowingly....!!!People may say good qualities..bla bla bla.... but when it comes down to the final stage,they expect their partner to be presentable...!!!
26 May 08
You know, I absolutely agree with you on this one.
• India
26 May 08
Oh, does that mean you want a show piece who you can tag along every where you go? Well,i didnt mention a really ugly person, i said choose between a handsome hunk and an average looking person, that dosnt mean that the average looking person is not presentable at all!
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
looks are important for a relationship to begin, i think this is so because the first things that we notice are those that are physical. however, for a relationship to really stand the test of time, there must be both love and friendship. couples grow old. and when they do, they lose physical attractiveness. it is love and friendship that keep couples together through time.
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Love is definately more important.
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I don't think this response requires any thought at all. I would LOVE to find someone to love me and be in love with me forever and ever. Thought I had that a couple of times, but I was fooled somehow. Looks don't mean much. I think we are attracted to someone by looks, but I don't think that a man has to be a "hunk" or knock down handsome, but I don't want someone who looks like he was run over by an ugly truck either.........there aren't that many of those around, I don't think. I don't consider myself that goodlooking so I sure can't be looking for Prince Charming myself.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
26 May 08
Looks are not important. I would rather have a not so good looking guy who treats me good over a good looking guy who treats me bad any day!
• India
7 Jul 08
You have made the right selection! Looks some day or the other fade but love, if it is true would remain through the up's and down's of life. And perhaps who wants to be treated like a doormat for the entire life? If someone loves you for who you are and accepts you the same way and dosnt think of changing you according to him/her... what is more important than that. its love at the end off the day that matters.
26 May 08
i would choose love but then there has to be something to attract you to the person in the first place i think, so ideally i would love a handsome hunk who has a fantastic personality and loves me totally and i would love him back lol! how much am i asking for pmsl! actually on a different note my idea of handsome hunk is not to every1 elses taste so i think i would be ok rofl!
• India
7 Jul 08
yes, very true there has to be something to attract you to the person but it dosnt necessarily have to be looks. Well everybody's idea of handsome hunk is diffrent and i respect your too. I do wish that you do get your idea of handsome hunk and he too loves you the way you do!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
7 Jul 08
My number choice is "LOVE". I prefer a man who has a heart than a man who is conscious about his looks but doesn't care about the person he loves. My mother once told me that there are a lot of men to choose from but there are very few who is human enough to have a heart. Some are very materialistic and bossy. Loving someone is two way. You have to give and recieve. It's not just give, give, give or receive, receive and receive. Take care =)
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
8 Jul 08
For me, love is more important not look..look can be deceptive but heart can never deceive...look cannot determine one's character but heart can say everything about someone. Thus, love is more important not look.
• Japan
7 Jul 08
Love is more important. What what leads to love is looks. So it is like a question: what came first, egg or chicken ?
@az03r4 (913)
• Indonesia
30 May 08
Wow, I think looks is the second requirement. But of course without looks we will never lost in love with. LOL Frankly, my taste for a perfect guy is not really good. But maybe I just can feel that I love him without consider about the face, but I do not want a bad-face guy to be my bf... LOL
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jun 08
if you really love a person never count on her/his look because it is not the real you, some have good looks but the heart is far from her/his look. the most important is the inner being of a person. if you love a person look his/her inner part.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jul 08
I would much rather have an average looking guy who loved me'than a hunk who only loved one person, himself. looks fade while love can grow through living and loving and having afamily. so hurray for the average guy.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
4 Jul 08
good looks are nice but love is more important. everyone's looks change as they get older but if that love doesn't change you are very fortunate.
@callyrob (24)
27 May 08
definately love
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
I'd still Love because with love everything looks beautiful.