Casual Racism
By Qaeyious
@Qaeyious (2357)
United States
May 26, 2008 11:28pm CST
During the weekdays I go to work, and they would never tolerate the kind of language I hear each day during the weekends or days off when I take public transit. And I can barely tolerate it myself, now that I hear it constantly when people, in public mind you, use racist or sexist labels amongst themselves, even when referring to acquaintances.
A recent addition is "dog." I am wondering if they added that because of the word they used for decades when talking about their women, the female equivalent. Another common word is their of one who sells her body for cash ...
Then there is the ultimate - the dictionary originally defined it as "a stupid person" but the connotations is the ultimate racist derogatory term - it ends with an r, has two g's in the middle, and starts with n. Not everyone uses it, but the subset that does are always there on public transportation, using it loudly when addressing friends, lovers, and everyone else who are their same race.
One time a guy was talking on his cellular on the bus on the same seat as me. Every single sentence he used that word, referring to the person he was talking to. I'm sorry, but it's a disgusting word. One of these days I will make an issue of it - currently I am a coward, facing such racists.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 May 08
Be careful. The people using the word may get up set if you call them racists.The N word is used as a term of endearment from one black to another in some cases. So the two parties may be fine with it's usage.
@CherylsPearls (1269)
• United States
27 May 08
I agree with you that it is disgusting to hear, but I would not try to do anything about it. People who talk like this are not about to start listening to other opinions.
It's a sad fact that the English language in America is falling by the wayside. It is being replaced by slang and derogatory words never said in public in past years. It also has to do with manners. I don't think a lot of people were ever taught manners, not at home or school. I don't know why, though, as manners are free and don't require money. The poorest of the poor can be raised to be decent, thoughtful, respectable human beings.
When faced with a barrage of disrespectful language, I usually do stare at whoever is speaking, but I've yet to say anything.



