I need everyone's advice...

I really don't have solutions to your problems. Me and my girlfriend are planning to get married in 2010. But we haven't saved a coin for it. But I think, believing that everything will be all right helps to ease the stress. How do I deal with stress? I write it down, try looking for some solutions. maybe you have a list of solutions so writing it down won't work for you. Well, I have read before that if you cannot do something about a problem at this moment, you should not worry about it. Worry about it when the moment that you can do something about it comes. Don't worry to much. You must enjoy every second of your life with your fiance. I would always like to say: don't worry about things, let things worry about you.

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