really regretting a break up, making a mistake.

Australia
May 28, 2008 2:09am CST
what do you do when you are really in love with someone and you have a huge fight break up with them and made a huge mistake (or three) and you dont realise it untill its to late? thats pretty much what happened to me. its like you dont know what you have got untill its gone, i didnt actually realise what i did wrong and was doing wrong untill it was to late. now i have made a huge mistake and now its over. it hurts more then anything because i did the mistake and i never realised all the petty things i was doing wrong untill it was 2 late. and whats sad is i still love this woman and want to have a family with her and travel the world with her. and i stuffed it up. its over. i turned her off me. i really regret this and it kills me. i learnt my lesson to late. she will not take me back. what do you do?
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sunkissed
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
28 May 08
Well I feel very bad for you. I do know what you are going through, I have been there. I too made huge mistakes in my relationship.But I was very lucky and in the end my partner did take me back. So maybe it really is not over. If you just give her some time, she may come back to you to.Good luck to you.
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Adadrian
@Adadrian (61)
• Australia
1 Jun 08
everyone actually keeps telling me that i need to give her time and she might come back to me but i think that is giving me false hope we are still talking and i know she has no interest of getting back with me, so right now im doing what i think will make her happy, give her what she wants and support her in what ever she does
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droorizz
@droorizz (1)
• Malta
24 Apr 09
It sucks, i came across this cos i'm going through the same thing... it hurts more than being dumped, cos i know i caused alot of pain, and i'm still in love, even though i wasn't admitting it to myself until 3 days ago ! Now this person has gone back to his country without any preadvice.. i feel lost and angry at myself! Maybe time will tell, maybe there will always be a second chance ! I guess we all deserve it ! Just hang on there ! that is all we can do !