Do U Own Joint Accounts....Can U Trust?

@nupats (3564)
India
May 28, 2008 2:08pm CST
i and my husband have all joint accounts...every bank account and property and vehicle is co owned by us...not that i want it that way but my husband insists to do so ...do u also share joint accounts? do u co own ur house and car? wud u share? can u trust or not?..
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@littleone3 (2065)
28 May 08
Me and my partner have a joint account yes i can trust him. With the car it is in his name because i do not drive. He is the first person i have had a joint account with. As i never trusted my first husband with money and refused to have a joint account with him.
@nupats (3564)
• India
29 May 08
we need to b judgemental and decide...glad for u...thanx for sharing ur views..
@kezabelle (2984)
28 May 08
We share everything all our money is in one account everything we own except the car is in both our names. The car is paid for outright but in his name etc because I dont drive. I trust him comepletley
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@nupats (3564)
• India
29 May 08
good we need to care and share signs of healthy rlationship and trust..thanx for ur views..
@phoenix25 (1542)
• United States
28 May 08
My husband and I share everything that we own. We have a joint bank account and we are both on the paperwork for our house and car. I trust my husband completely and he trusts me, so it's not a big deal to have it that way. In my opinion, if you don't trust your partner/spouse enough to share a bank account with them, then you shouldn't be with them.
@nupats (3564)
• India
29 May 08
Grt thought dear..i agree with u fully..wish u a ever so happy married life..Cheers
• Canada
28 May 08
My husband and I both had bad experiences with people before we met eachother, that basically controlled us with money. For me it was a parent, or him it was an ex-wife. We also have very different philosophies about managing money. We work better with our separate accounts. Of course we're also living separately because o his job. I'm in Ontario, he's in Arizona, so we are maintaining our own residences. When we both settle up here in Caanada, we will keep our eparate accounts, and then open a joint one that will ONLY be used for paying bills, so that we can both access the account, and whoever sees the bill first, can physically pay it.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
29 May 08
oh thats sad to know..bcoz there can b nothing worse than getting cheated by the people u trust...anyways glad u found each other...and as of now in ur circumstances it is very understandable that u maintain seperate accounts...Thanx for ur views..