What is the worst thing that could ever happen to a woman?

@salonga (27834)
Philippines
May 29, 2008 3:34am CST
As a woman what do you think could be the worst thing that could happen to you and what are things you are doing now to prevent this to happen to your life. As for me, the worst thing that could happen to a woman is to marry an irresponsible guy who will not be a good and responsible husband and father to his children. Why because I believe the true fulfillment in the life of a woman is not her career, nor any material things in life but being able to marry a man whom she could build a real home with. One who is truly responsible, loving and caring.
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@roniroxas (10574)
• Philippines
29 May 08
i agree on what you said, and i will add on one thing more. one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is to be hurt physically and emotionally by her own husband. imagining how painful it is to be hurt by a person you are expecting to protect you. i am a single mom of four children, i left my husband and tag along my children because he is all of the above. he is all of what you said and all of what i said. he was a good person when we are just gf/bf then transformed into this horrible person when we are married.
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@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
29 May 08
Oh I admire your principle. Better be a single mom than suffer with him all your life. You have 4 children and I'm sure, they will give you all the happiness your husband failed to give you. Thanks for sharing!
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29 May 08
hey there! i totally agree with you. marrying a man who couldn't take care of himself or his family is one of the worst things that could happen to a woman. i actually know someone who's married to that kind of guy. all the guy did was rely on the woman's income which made it hard for their family to get through. anyhow, as for me, another bad thing that could happen to a woman is also being married but this time to a physically-abusive guy. that's just hell...
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@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
29 May 08
It's really hell my dear and maybe I could kill that man! Thank you for sharing!
@landi927 (657)
• China
29 May 08
Being married to a bad guy is really a bad thing to a woman. But as for me, I think this is not the worst thing coz i think you are still able to change the situation. You can devorce with the bad guy and find someone really love you. The worst thing to me may be that when i get married, and plan to pregnant, the doctor tells me that i can't pregnant coz i get some diseases or i am not suitablt to pregnant. In my mind, being a mother is the greatest thing to my life, especially having a child of me and my lover. If i cannot be a mother in my life, i may feel that my life is not complete.
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@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
29 May 08
You have a good point there landie,it's really distressing to be deprived of tasting motherhood all your life, thanks for sharing!
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@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
30 May 08
The worst thing that would happen to woman is to settle with a man who does not want anything out of life and then to find out that this guy give her HIV/AIDS virus. When you have seen that you could have move on with your life to start all over again but to go to the doctor to do your annual check up and to hear the doctor says 'sorry miss you are hiv positive'. This is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.
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@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
I think this is really the worst and feels like hell! Thanks!
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
30 May 08
get raped and become pregnant.. it will become a battle of will..the will to discontinue with the pregnancy that you dislike so much or the will to continue the pregnancy beacuse of your fear to God..so hard..it will be a very tough battle. you have been abused and they have left you a memory that will haunt you for the rest of your life..
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@muirn88 (13)
• United States
31 May 08
Personally, the worst thing that could happen to me would be getting married to the guy I'm in love with and then finding out we can't have children. I've had nightmares about that sort of thing.
@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
I hope and I pray your nightmare will never become a reality!!! thanks for sharing!
• China
31 May 08
When she is old,her husband abandon her,i think it is the worst thing.I often worry about that,because many people say that women is fater to old than men.And any man loves the young lady,though not every man agree with the point,but it is a fact.i believe it.I often hope my boyfriend is a believalbe man.But who can forecast everything?nobady.so let's let it be.
@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
31 May 08
Oh my! that could really be so hard a situation. But please don't think the negative way. Even if you grow old for as long as your husband truly loves you you will forever be his lady love. Choose well the husband that you will have. Pray for the best man to come your life just as I did and you know what... God hears prayers like this!
• Mauritius
30 May 08
i totally agree with you and i think that the worst thing that can happen with a woman is that she marries with a person that she does not love and he is not the right person for her. the person is not the way in which she wanted her life partner to be and above all neither she loves the guy nor he loves her. that would be the worst one as she would be doing compromise then. her life becomes hell as she wont be happy with her life.
@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
31 May 08
Thanks a lot for sharing the same views, I appreciate that. God bless!
• Philippines
30 May 08
^_^ im a guy.. just wanted to respond.. for me to lost her virginity.. and married a man that does not accept that... or love a man that does not accept what she have done.. meeen i want to really married a virgin woman.. but i think it is not possible now.. coz i am committed to a like this woman... but i really love her.. thats why I accept her.. but it sometimes stub me.. thats why i told her not to talk about the past.. ^_^ she also love me... she does not keep secret from me anymore... wheww! thats why it is not possible anymore to marry a virgin women.. ^_^... right now our relationship is God centered, so she trust me and i trust her.. she is also afraid to loose me.. and besides that I love her so much thats why I trust her also.. meeennn virginity is very valuable to me.. anyways we does not have same emotions.. ^_^
@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
30 May 08
Oh thanks for responding and for the nice views you shared. I appreciate the love and trust you have with each other that will surely hold your relationhip firm and of course with God at the center of it then how could it go wrong! God bless!
@Hatley (164232)
• Garden Grove, California
30 May 08
for me as a woman and a senior citizen to be raped would be the absolute worst thing that could happen to me and I avoid the sorts of places one might be in danger of something like that happening to an older person. i also do not let strangers or salespersons inside my home as I do not know them at all and why take chances. You would feel so dirty and so defiled as some stranger took from you forcibly what you only ever gave to just the man whom you loved, your husband.
@salonga (27834)
• Philippines
30 May 08
Oh yes you are also right with your opinion madam! And thank you for the tips you share on how to take precautions.