?What would you do??

United States
May 29, 2008 11:16am CST
So I was hanging out with some of my friends when this guy asked me out and he told me that he loves me after its been like 3 weeks and Im so scared of hurting him but I know that my heart itsnt with him like it should be what would you do about this situation? I'm really confused and im not sure what I should do...so if you could let me know what you would do it would make me really happy thanks..
5 responses
@Insung001 (740)
• Philippines
29 May 08
It always pays to be honest. Sure it would hurt him, but I think it would hurt him more if you make him believe that you also feel something for him, when in reality, you don't. It would be a lot difficult to tell him that if you're already involved. So letting him know early would be good thing to do, I you'd ask me. Thanks for sharing Tabby.
• United States
30 May 08
Thanks for the input its nice to here different opions from people so that I try not to make the wrong decision in the end but again that you it helps you here from you ?
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
29 May 08
i would say i dont like you like that , period simple and plain nothing much to say after that , if you date him expect some stalking or something to that nature cause he diffently has a couple of screws loose , three weeks after hanging out amd all of the sudden he loves you??surrrree i bet leave him alone before you get any deeper with him , by next month he'll ask you to marry him
• India
29 May 08
Well, looks like you are confused. Just tell him you are confused. Tell him you like him a lot, but don't feel romantic about it. It is better than leading him on and then complicating matters. Cheers and all the best!
• India
29 May 08
dont be scared be freank & tell what you want if he love you he under stand you
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
29 May 08
Be frank. Tell him you enjoy his company but don't feel the same way about him as he does about you.