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I have a daughter, who when young was very depressed, talked of suicide, and was a very dark thinker. None of her other siblings were like this at all, neither was I or her Father. She became rebleious like many teenagers, and fought everything we tried to do with her. Thanks to some dogood neighbor, who knew nothing about the situation, reported to CPS, her unrulyness, but to my surprise I welcomed their help, and grabbed onto the help they gave for a counselor, I was at my wits end myself, so I agreed. She was allowed the counselor, who kept everything "Private", which I personally did not understand to a point, it seemed to me that anything that would help the parent to deal with the child productively, would be an asset, but they didnt. Little did I know that my child was accusing me of abuse behind my back, and they ended up taking custody of her away from me, with out a shred of proof. The sent her to a girls home for troubled teens where she was abused and bullied beyond any reasonable method known. My daughter was there for 3 years total. She is now 22 years old, and messed up beyond belief, all bonds with her family are broken, and she feels no sense of belonging. The problem is way worse now than it ever was before. I know she is "of age" now but, you never stop being a mother. Any suggestions on how to approach this problem, I believe you can find wisdom in numbers, and an outside view, just may be what I need!! .