Love before marriage or after marriage??

Love after marraige is long lasting than that of before marraige.

I hope love lasts from the beginning to the end. Of COURSE,I won't start marriage without love.

Love before marriage helps relationship to sustain, I think. If my girlfriend and I had not done that before, it would have been much more difficult for us to marry later.

love before marriage

Of course love is the first.If there is no love,why do you marraige? I'm a Chinese,may be there are some mistakes.LOL

You got to have some love there b4 marriage to put up with the nasty male species habits they have got. Like peeing on the toilet seat, burping and farting out loud, making a big great household mess, lousy in bed amongst other unmentionables, mami, you have definately got to have some love there.

if one is honest and faithful then i would rather prefer love before marriage...

Love should come before marriage because for me,it has to develop before even getting married.If after,you just wasted your time and money for a person that you didn't love.What is marriage for?Technically,it should be for love and not anything else.

i'm a greedy person so i want both. i can never enter in to a marriage without love. i will never stay in a marriage without love as well. so before and after is as important to me. if there is no love, i'd rather be alone. i'm grateful for the fact that i'm financially independent so i don't have to stay in a marriage for that. i'm also grateful for the fact that my parents are very supportive of me regardless of the path i choose. so love before AND after marriage is the way to go. cheers.

I want LOVE before Marriage because I could never be with someone whom I don't love. I want to experience "love" first before getting married... Thanks. Cheers!

i think i will prefer love before marriage, as i feel that i am not the kind who will want to be married to someone who does not love me. i will want that person to love me unconditionally and despite all my faults. no expectations, just that he will love me for who i am and not what i am. but, i feel that even if i fall in love after marriage, it will not be so bad either, since, at least he loves me in the end!!!

love when it is ... doesn't matter before or after

Before or after does not matter. As long as there is true love.

I prefer love before marriage. I really can't stay with someone who i don't love, it just like staying in hell.

Love never asks when to come - before or after. But for me - better before marriage.

Of course you need love, friendship, and trust before marriage. I tried the falling in love after marriage and it never came. There are many factors that go into a good marriage not just love.

Love before marriage..

it does not matter which comes first. if u both agreed about having loves before marriage, then do it as long as no one is being force to do it.

aftre marriage