Cute cute kitties aww

Sometimes it is difficult. What I did was took a towel rubbed one cat down and then rubbed the other cat down with the same towel and vice versa. That way the cats get their scents on the other cat. Then slowly introduce them. You can have a spray bottle available so it the get into a fight you can spray them with water. They are not too keen on that. This worked when introducing one cat to another, but when we brought a third cat in, well that was just too much for the oldest cat and she never did get used to the third. I mean she compromised with the second cat, but the third was just too much. You will still get the occasional hissing with cat one to cat two, but those two cats generally get alon.

i have had cats for almost all of my life and we have gotten new cats before and for the most part they have all gotten use to each other and they will just pass and let the others pass...i think one of the main things to remember is to not try and push them on one another and that will work out in the end...thats what i do i just let them have their own space and know that eventually they will just get to know each other...have you ever tried letting the other cats in the room to see if they could get comfortable enough with each other to come out of hte bedroom? you could try that to see if that works

I've had cats all my life...ever since I was about five years old. Years and years ago, I've never really had a problem with introducing a new kitty to older cats I may have had though...my two current kitties even though they literally grew up together aren't exactly palsie walsie ..I mean they don't fight or anything like that, but they don't exactly cuddle with one another either. My one cat, Kissy, a tiger striped is a timid cat and a little intimidated by my black cat Pyewacket--that picture for the interest group "cats" is him btw...LOL...Kissy is even terrified of storms and the slightest pitter patter of rain she darts under the bed. Once in awhile Pyewacket does try to bully Kissy a bit and there's hissing involved--like I said I really don't know why those two act like that considering they grew up together but it's almost like sibling rivalry or something as Pyewacket just loves to hog all the attention and gets jealous if I talk to Kissy..go figure

maybe stay with them in the same room and play with them at the same time to put all cats at ease with one another. make them become comfortable with one another. r they all fixed? or will they end up reproducing with one another?

Feed them together; give them treats together; play with them together. Do try the towel thing. Leave a towel with the other cats' scents in the place where the new cats are. Hissing is OK; they are finding their places with each other. Our 4 cats have their friends and their I'll tolerate that one, barely. Good luck.

well we all know a boy cat and a girl cat can get along pretty well. if both are of the same gender it might take time. If there are two boy cats and one girl cat then there is going to be alot of competition. It pretty much works like the us humans. I had a girl cat and it used to hang around with an old hag of a cat, dont even have a tail. i tried to stop those two becoming together but it didnt work out. so i just let them mate and having little baby ones. and she would chase off any other girl cat that wanders in to her terrain.

guy nothing personal but i hate cats, and the cats hates me. i dont know why. but this uncondicional "hate"

Aww, poor little kitties... problems fitting in with new environments. It sounds kind of cute though. From what you say though I would guess that you haven't been there for long. I general I find that pets get used to one another eventually... they're much like children in that respect. Once you show them that you still love them even though there is another in the house they gradually get used to it. Time is all it really needs.

Cats like their big cousins lion are territorials, meaning if both male are on the same area, you could expect a war soon, but if different gender there will be no problem. We have two male cats, one is far older than one, before when one is still a kitty the older one tend to play but now they both mature there is always a fight.

Don't worry just slowly keep introducing them. You kitties know where there safe place is. In most cases they will adjust and be ok. It all takes time. Hold your cat and have your roomie hold hers . little by little things will fall in place. The only answer is time.They could just tolerate each other after time and learn to co-exist, or hopefully they will really bond and become fast friends.