Is this possible at all??

@ZephyrSun (7382)
United States
June 1, 2008 2:48pm CST
My husband thinks that he can make me happy all the time which I have tried to make him understand that but he doesn't listen. He makes me crazy with this notion that people have the ability to be happy all the time. Do you think that it is possible to be happy all of the time. Do you think that it is possible to be happy all the time unless something really bad happens? My husband will do anything and everything to make me happy, this includes cleaning, taking care of children that aren't his, going out in the middle of the night to get me things that I may need, the list goes on and on. I mostly do not ask him to do anything for me, unless I am sick and really need his help. Do you think that he is crazy for doing this? I do sorry but honestly I do because he says he does these things to make me happy. Which I would rather him say that he does them because he loves me. I am not a depressed person, I just am not happy 24/7 which he thinks I should be.
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@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
1 Jun 08
What wonderful husband you have my friend. Yes I believe you can be happy all the time if you want. Sometimes unhappiness comes inside of us when we have time to space out and think about unpleasant things. To me you can make yourself as happy as you want to be. For me I will come to mylot. Before mylot I will read a book laugh and talk to myself. My father will hear me doing this and says 'mad woman, you and your book'. Or I will watch GSN and play along. I believe that happiness begins within you and only you can make your self becomes happy. Someone can try but you have to let yourself go. Yes he loves you that is the reason he wants you to always be happy. So even if he does not tells you every minute of the day/every day of the week. The things that he does should let you know that Love is right there. So don't worry, be happy. This is slogan that use to run in my country.
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@alcazar (761)
• India
1 Jun 08
Hey dear ...he is deep love with you...so he alway wants you to be happy that s it...
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
3 Jun 08
for me..no one cxan be happy 24-7. of course there are times that you would feel unhappy without apparent reason. just feel so...in your case...just let your husband be..atleast he is so willing to get out of his way to make things for you!goodluck!
@ZephyrSun (7382)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Thank you for your response!
@wayne001 (86)
• United States
1 Jun 08
You are a lucky woman. Do you know how many women in the world are begging their husband to do some housework? I think your husband has very good intention that he really cares your mental health. He is willing to make extra efforts to make you happy.As an outsider, I can tell he really loves you. He doesn't say so because men are shy. Most men don't know how to express their feelings using language. They don't know what women want.
@ZephyrSun (7382)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Thanks although sometimes it makes me crazy that he puts so much effort into my happiness. I'd much rather him work on communication lol!
@Hatley (164170)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jun 08
zephyrsun Ihave news for you he does that to make you happy because he loves you and love is a hard word for a lot of guys to say while happy is much easier. I know as my husband was like that too.you are one lucky woman. I asked my husband once about happy and he mumbled that if I make 'you happy you have to know I love you. okay was that so 'hard. its a guy thing. no he is not crazy he is in love with you so be glad, be very glad.he does do them because he loves you and this is how he shows it. appreciate him.