A bad experience

India
June 2, 2008 12:45pm CST
I had a very bad experience with a long lasted (about twenty years) friendship. It still itching me. I'm not only friend for him but for their entire family. Though I could not manage to recover the friendship again. I want to forget those twenty years. Yes, twenty years...
2 responses
2 Jun 08
A true friendship cannot be thrown away.I have a friend who I have known for three years.He is there for me as I am for him.We have had strong arguments which have been really bad but because we care about each other so much,the arguments only brought us closer because they were honest and constructive.Before you throw such a long friendship away,ask yourself,is this really a true friend-why do you say so? Secondly,ask yourself why you are so angry about what happened? Since I do not know what happened between you,I can not go further. There is an old Jamaican saying that goes: be good to the people you meet on your way up,for they are the same people you will meet on your way down.The moral of the story being,be good to people,they may be of invaluable service to you in the future. The greatest gift you can give yourself and your friend is forgiveness. If you can forgive them of something so hurtful and let it go completely,that is a sign of a great poerful love that can heal wounds. Good luck and sun to your path
• India
3 Jun 08
I am not a saint though I'm not a rude. I am truthfull and friendly to almost everyone on the way of my life. Thanks for your soul touching words. But I'm sorry. I have to forget every thing.
@magrylouyu (1629)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I think it will be very difficult to forget twenty years. I have known my best friend since we were 2 and now are 22 and are still great friends. I could never imagine forgeting everything. Have you tried to "fix" the situation? Sitting down talking about the problem? I really hope you guys can work this out rather then throw it all away. Good luck.
• India
3 Jun 08
He neglected all my calls for a talk. It happened about eleven years back. But still I'm unable to forget those lovely moments. Because, I loved him very much. I don't know if he have/had the same feeling.